Deja - - loved hearing that even an extrovert like you can admit to moments of speechlessness. Many of your posts are mini-novelettes, so having a loss of words seems unusual. You say that you felt bad for not speaking up...imagine how many nights he has been tortured with the dream that he let YOU slip away.
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As TinMan pointed out, "topless is okay", as is "Clothing that clings to the genital region or clothing that is somewhat transparent".
May I suggest the Jail Inmate costume, with the zipper lowered all of the way, so that your beauties are available for gazing?
Just one of many possibilities...
Originally Posted by TexomaCowboy
Lol tbh I would not consider myself an extrovert at all. I think some people tend to believe that (or they just can't believe that I'm shy because I'm very "lively, entertaining, and happen to be a good conversationalist")....lol
Personally, I don't think those automatically qualify me to be an "extrovert"...(not that I take it as a bad thing). But if you put me in a large setting with lots of people, I tend to get quieter and more reserved, as I prefer more intimate settings, and one-on-one encounters, or at the most, small group interactions.
I hardly, if ever, approach people face to face for serious matters, or to "hit on them"....I give out compliments like no other and hold the door open for men and women alike (I guess it's my southern charm and manners lol) but anything more than those casual encounters, makes me a bit nervous, I'll admit.
I do great seeing clients because, if they "hit me up", it obviously means and tells me, they MUST have liked SOMETHING about me. So theres already an attraction there that puts me more at ease compared to talking to a stranger, who may not even find me attractive!!!....With a civilian it's different because I dont know if I'm even their type, let alone if they're taken etc...
Truly, I'll admit, I seem to have a talent with my words, writing, moreso than freestyling off top. How I choose to express myself, verbally, is a tad bit different lol..nonetheless, I have a lot to express at times. It's just always been easier for me to do so, either through writing, or after much consideration and thought. And of course, in a more intimate setting with a few, or just one person.....
Sometimes my nerves syke me out. And by the time I manage to gather up the courage to approach a stranger that I happen to find interesting or attractive, (after I've had a chance to process my thoughts and garner up the right words to say of course), that moment might have slipped away and passed me by....smh
Tbh, in a fantasy world, the guy always approaches the girl....but I'm going to try to make it a goal of mine this year, to let go of seemingly frivolous worries and concerns and actually make that first move. Wether it's with goals of mine or taking a shot at a handsome man I encounter or feel attracted to. I shouldn't continue to let possibilities pass me by, especially now that I'm gearing off to another path, and would like it to be non-hobby related.
I feel like I've finally progressed to a point in life where I'm now open for something deeper and would like to build and have a relationship someday, (or at the least a mutually beneficial "partner-ship") lol.... Something I've purposely denied myself, and others of, these last few years, as I worked on self, health and overall progession. I have not had a relationship nor enjoyed fun outside of the hobby this whole time. But I honestly feel like I'm ready to change that, along with a few other things....
Time is only passing us by. It's already 2024. It's time to embrace all of the people and possibilities that we can!!! I'm ready for a change, and ready for something new. And I'm DEFINITELY ready for a lil boo thang to cuddle up with, in front of the fireplace lol!!!
So let's all say "Carpe diem" one time, for the one time, and live a little this year. Take that chance. Start that project. Take that trip. Give up that vice. And approach that man or woman!!! As long as you overcome that fear and whatever was holding you back, you have every reason to be proud of yourself, no matter the outcome, because some never even get that far.
Also, TexomaCowboy, not sure if that's your signature or a message to myself, since I do in fact, own an inmate costume, but I appreciate the info and inspiration and will definitely make some magic happen
P.S....Sorry to continously "bore" yall with my long winded "novellas" btw.... I just really love to espress myself through writing. Especially when its about stuff I feel passionate about.....writing happens to be my one of my favorite forms of self-expression, well of course besides using the absolute beauty of physical arts, known better to yall as dance, intimacy, touch and sex!!!!
Those who don't mind shy, lively, expressive freaks such as myself, should hit me up for more entertainment and lively convos