Swingers Clubs/parties

Have you always wondered what happens there? Have you been and hated it....or loved it and wanted to go again? What is your fantasy?
Ie. MMF/FFM/watching/putting on a show

they can always be great fun if you are a female....no matter your size or age

but for guys,unless you are young/hung/or black,or all three...you are usually SOL

I have done the swinger party many times, I am a single fit, hung, attactive male so I get invited, if you are black you still need a big dick color does not matter if you are single male, you HAVE to bring something to the table

Its fun!!! I dont like voyeurs that are at the parties, makes me feel like I am parade or something..

from my 5 visits so far, it takes a bit of time to find folks to play with you. repeat visits will help you spot other regulars that you want to have fun with.
you can always do your thing and let folks watch and hopefully one or more will join in.

but for higher probabilities, go to an on-premises club where you can get it on.
otherwise, it'll be teasingly frustrating to ratchet it up and then have to go elsewhere to get it on.


maybe i havent had as much fun cos i go there w/ a woman and am middle-aged, 6", and light skinned hispanic :^)

Been 4 times with my favorite provider. Was Huge amount of fun.

I've always thought going with a provider to one of these would be a hoot. I have an UTR friend that I've discussed this with..just never followed through. Although...I probably would, to a certain extent, be one the creepy voyeurs that was referred to earlier. Yes...some participation...but the watching thing...rather hot.

Have you always wondered what happens there? Have you been and hated it....or loved it and wanted to go again? What is your fantasy?
Ie. MMF/FFM/watching/putting on a show Originally Posted by alaine

I loved it during that period of my life...with my current relationship, sadly, not on the menu. And I would go back in an instant, whether a swing club or house party.

I was very nervous the first time I went - with a provider and her hubby....I didn't do much that time.

Actually, I don't think I"ve every like, REALLY gone nuts and gotten it on at one - the voyeur part made me a bit self conscious.....but since many years have passed since I've been with anyone....the thought of gettin a good fuckin and folks watching right there - seems quite hot to me.

Specially if they get a bit freak nasty with things.
(meaning - not vanilla)

they can always be great fun if you are a female....no matter your size or age

but for guys,unless you are young/hung/or black,or all three...you are usually SOL Originally Posted by DallasRain

Hey I am young, fit, hung and Black- where's my invite?

Been 4 times with my favorite provider. Was Huge amount of fun. Originally Posted by Bubba3452

Hell yeah Bubba, been to a few clubs many times with my favorite lady. We love putting on a show for the "creepy voyeurs"!
We have also brought another provider friend and her date and swapped out.

but for guys,unless you are young/hung/or black,or all three...you are usually SOL Originally Posted by DallasRain

LOL, Dallas! Well I'm not young or black!

Hey I am young, fit, hung and Black- where's my invite? Originally Posted by wellendowed1911

join sdc.com and as long as you can perform in a group setting and having some husband bark out commands for you to fuk his wife, then you are ready to go!!

join sdc.com and as long as you can perform in a group setting and having some husband bark out commands for you to fuk his wife, then you are ready to go!! Originally Posted by RALPHEY BOY

Serious is that the only criteria?

Having been a few times, with a lover. It can be quite enjoyable.
You don't have to do/enjoy anything you don't want to do, nor with anyone you don't want to. You pick & choose whom you want to be sexually intimate with at a Swingers club and the over aspect of having others watch but not touch. (voyeurism) is fucking awesome & erotic!

Have you always wondered what happens there? Have you been and hated it....or loved it and wanted to go again? What is your fantasy?
Ie. MMF/FFM/watching/putting on a show Originally Posted by alaine

It can be a lot of fun, mostly depending on the parties involved and how open and adaptable everyone is.

Kind of agree with the single male comments you definitely have to bring something to even get in the door. Although generally a sexy desirable playmate is usually more than enough to get lots of interest. If you are both attractive and bi, you will open yourself up to many possibilities.

The onsite parties can definitely be fun and offer opportunities although they tend to screen pretty heavily and it helps to know someone to get an invite. There used to be a pretty good club in the DFW area that was actually at a hotel which made getting to a place to play privately much easier. The SDC website recommendation is another good one as my "friend" and I found a lot to choose from on there. Again if you are a single male don't bother, but if you have a sexy lady who is willing to be listed with you as a couple, you can definitely find playmates there.

NO it's not at all! Trust me, those who brag about the size of their cock all the time, ain't all it's cracked up to be. Just because one claims it's large, doesn't mean it's functional.

Swingers clubs and adult swinging sites are for anyone & everyone who partakes of that lifestyle. The main criteria for a swingers club, is a male attending with a female. Some clubs allow single men to attend. Most don't. Just find out the do's & don't of your local Swingers club.

And there are swinging sites where the couples can limit whom they allow access to their profiles/whom they want to hook up with.

Serious is that the only criteria? Originally Posted by wellendowed1911