That sounds like a lot of fun!! I don't know I could actually do it though. I'm not comfortable enough to be naked in public having sex. I still get nervous and get that big lump in my throat when I get naked infront of a lady. Once my clothes are gone it's different, just taking my clothes off infront of a provider makes me nervous! lol
Originally Posted by PoppyToyota
You might be supprised. Also, you do not have to do anything. You can just watch, dance, and talk to folks. And, swingers are a cross section of the general population. Some are smoking hot, many are average and a few you really wonder about.
There is no preasure there. In many ways, its far friendlier and comforatable than a dance club or bar. From what I have seen, people of both sexes are far politer and friendlier than the general poulation. Girls in bars tend to be very defensive. I did not see any of that. You can sit down, talk to a woman and her husband is not going to get upset. If you dont click, you just say bye and move on.
Hopefully some of the other folks here who are in the lifestyle can chime in with some usefull information for you. I know I will go back as ofton as I can :-0