Thanks to the ladies

I was at The 13th Floor over the weekend with Dragonfly. (see review). Also saw many of our fine ladies from here. But a special thnks to one we saw Friday night. You really helped make my first real swingers club experience unforgetable.

Guys, you have GOT to take one of the ladies to this place or one of the other swingers clubs.. You will never forget it.
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That sounds like a lot of fun!! I don't know I could actually do it though. I'm not comfortable enough to be naked in public having sex. I still get nervous and get that big lump in my throat when I get naked infront of a lady. Once my clothes are gone it's different, just taking my clothes off infront of a provider makes me nervous! lol
That sounds like a lot of fun!! I don't know I could actually do it though. I'm not comfortable enough to be naked in public having sex. I still get nervous and get that big lump in my throat when I get naked infront of a lady. Once my clothes are gone it's different, just taking my clothes off infront of a provider makes me nervous! lol Originally Posted by PoppyToyota
You might be supprised. Also, you do not have to do anything. You can just watch, dance, and talk to folks. And, swingers are a cross section of the general population. Some are smoking hot, many are average and a few you really wonder about.

There is no preasure there. In many ways, its far friendlier and comforatable than a dance club or bar. From what I have seen, people of both sexes are far politer and friendlier than the general poulation. Girls in bars tend to be very defensive. I did not see any of that. You can sit down, talk to a woman and her husband is not going to get upset. If you dont click, you just say bye and move on.

Hopefully some of the other folks here who are in the lifestyle can chime in with some usefull information for you. I know I will go back as ofton as I can :-0
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Bubba,

I've never been at a swingers club, someone offered me once and I said sure...but we didn't hook up and go... I don't know if I missed on the opportunity that fell into my lap, I guess I had cold feet and I didn't make that call... It sound like a great place to be and a lot of fun... and what is $$$$ damage in the bank/wallet?
The cover charge must be high and after that who knows... Maybe you can tell us..? (I know you can PM that stuff too...)
Anyways, I think to go to a swingers club you better bring a date with you and if she is HOT, you will probably enjoy her and some other fine ladies!
Have fun Bubba... Keep it up!!!
Hell I like going to swingers club and getting naked while i'm having a good time playing with couples......
Poppy, you don't have to get naked. In my case, I just dropped the tight jeans to my ankles and I go commando 99% of the time. The room was dimly lit, so I just leaned over the arm of the couch and went at it. No one could see any naked body parts, other than the side of my leg, they just heard my pleasure. We know well that guys don't have to get naked to have fun, just unzip, pull out, cover up and go in! I am usually very shy, but something about that experience was empowering. I would certainly do it again.
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Poppy, you don't have to get naked. In my case, I just dropped the tight jeans to my ankles and I go commando 99% of the time. The room was dimly lit, so I just leaned over the arm of the couch and went at it. No one could see any naked body parts, other than the side of my leg, they just heard my pleasure. We know well that guys don't have to get naked to have fun, just unzip, pull out, cover up and go in! I am usually very shy, but something about that experience was empowering. I would certainly do it again. Originally Posted by reese foster

Where do I sign up for that! Sounds like a lot of fun!
Actualy, it was quite reasonable. Cover Friday night was $50 for a couple. Its BYOB, so I paid $35 for a bottle of Crown Black. They provided a buffett (quite good), and a bartender w setups for the drinks. So total out of pocket for the club was 85 bucks. Spent 3 1/2 hours there Fri so actualy a very good value. Of course, the provider part is between the two of you.

Again, the people are a nice cross section of the general population looks wise, The big difference is, eveyone is there to have fun and sex is a big part of it. Everyone is very self confident and thats is an increadable turn on. Ex: Your standing there talking to a nice looking woman, not a model but nice. She knows your looking at her body and does not mind. In fact, that is what she wants! The fact is she butt naked at the time just adds to it. How can that not be sexy? And, it makes it much easier for an old, out of shape farts like me to relax and enjoy when you know no one is gouing to judge you because of those extra few pounds or gray hair.
Bubba,

I've never been at a swingers club, someone offered me once and I said sure...but we didn't hook up and go... I don't know if I missed on the opportunity that fell into my lap, I guess I had cold feet and I didn't make that call... It sound like a great place to be and a lot of fun... and what is $$$$ damage in the bank/wallet?
The cover charge must be high and after that who knows... Maybe you can tell us..? (I know you can PM that stuff too...)
Anyways, I think to go to a swingers club you better bring a date with you and if she is HOT, you will probably enjoy her and some other fine ladies!
Have fun Bubba... Keep it up!!! Originally Posted by nbs4143
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Poppy, you don't have to get naked. In my case, I just dropped the tight jeans to my ankles and I go commando 99% of the time. The room was dimly lit, so I just leaned over the arm of the couch and went at it. No one could see any naked body parts, other than the side of my leg, they just heard my pleasure. We know well that guys don't have to get naked to have fun, just unzip, pull out, cover up and go in! I am usually very shy, but something about that experience was empowering. I would certainly do it again. Originally Posted by reese foster
"I just dropped the tight jeans to my ankles and I go commando 99% of the time. ... they just heard my pleasure."

ms. foster, i knew you were hot the few times i've talked and visited w/ you.
now i KNOW you are hot!!!

glad you had a deliteful time!!!

maybe you women and your select guys can hold the appetizer at the 13th floor and then travel to someone's home for the midnite [or overnight] delite that has been written about in the "Truly Bisexual ladies" thread???!!!
i would be honored to chauffeur several of the women to and fro', among other things!!