Cleanliness and a Proper Attitude!

bojulay's Avatar
Seems to be a top priority of what both men and women want.

Dudes, do the girls a favor and wash up your lower half when you get
to her incall, even if you just got out of the shower before you left
to go and see her.

Will be to your benefit because it will set her mind at ease about your
cleanliness right off the start. Had a girl comment that she wished
ever guy would do that, but she didn't want to seem impolite by asking.

There is one girl I know of that makes it a regular routine to wash a guy
up herself before a session.

And don't be an A-Hole. Your only game should be respect and to show yourself and
a girl a good time. Goes for the ladies also. That is all.

Thoughts anyone??
Those are the two most important qualities to have for both the provider and client, great hygiene and a pleasing attitude. The cleanliness is a no brainer, but the attitude needs to be as well.

Why would a guy PAY for a BCD session from a provider who has bad frame of mind? He can get that, YMMV and drama in the RW for free.
Lindsay Lee's Avatar
Bojulay and davidfree986 , yall are both RIGHT ON!! Thank you!

xoxoox
bojulay's Avatar
Bojulay and davidfree986 , yall are both RIGHT ON!! Thank you!

xoxoox Originally Posted by Lindsay Lee
Thanks.

Common sense, cleanliness, and simple respect, should be a common thing.
pyramider's Avatar
Send dic pics, the ladies love them.
taint pics with hairy nutsacks are good, too. You don't gotta warsh yer whole ass but you gotta warsh your ass hole! Think of it as a video game, nuke the Klingons.
Clouddancer's Avatar
It amazes me people have to be reminded about cleanliness in the hobby.

I am a strong advocate of hobbyist/provider cleanliness.
Simple solution:

Shower Together!
Cleanliness AND a great attitude is the subject here, not cleanliness only as if a provider is a dead fuck, it does not matter what her hygiene is, and if she has a great attitude about her service and performance but smells and tastes like rotten eggs, then that is not going to fly either.
*Ginger*'s Avatar
Bojulay and davidfree986 , yall are both RIGHT ON!! Thank you!

xoxoox Originally Posted by Lindsay Lee
+1...*Lindsay Lee* i could not agree more!!
Laura Lynn's Avatar
Thanks.

Common sense, cleanliness, and simple respect, should be a common thing. Originally Posted by bojulay
You would think, but funny how that isn't always the case.
Bruce Dickinson's Avatar
So ur saying it shouldn't sound like two sheets of 220 grit rubbing together when I walk in? Hmmmmm. Something to think about.....
seanj317's Avatar
Why is this thread even here? This is rule #1, did I miss a dirty balls/vagina picture that got everyone all wound up? Or is this a lecture to someone specific?
IMAPACKIN's Avatar
Send dic pics, the ladies love them. Originally Posted by pyramider
You will need the macro lens for your 1.3" of dangling death Pyramider!
The Proper Stranger's Avatar
Cleanliness becomes more important when godliness is unlikely.

At least I've got the attitude down by default.
DallasRain's Avatar
great post!

I try to give my gents a bubblebath before we start playing....being clean and smelling good is top priority!