How do you guys deal with girls who know limited English?

Yesterday, I visited another AMP instead of my usual one (gotta keep my options open). And Mamasan when I first called her, said there was someone available for 1 hour. When I got there, she told me she could only do 30 minutes. Also got visibly frustrated since it was my first time there (based on my young appearance).

Another guy behind me who was much older looking, just went straight in (guessing he was a regular).



Even my go to AMP has girls who don't understand much English so I'd like to find ways to communicate my intentions a bit better. Full disclosure, I'm a 29 year old just recently getting into the hobby so maybe based on my age, girls would be more hesitant in providing services.
naughty4u1976's Avatar
Use universal sign language.

Jacking-off motion next to your dick = L1 Handie/happy ending
BJ motion (hand holding a dick motion to mouth) = L2
Make a kiss or licking tongue motion
and point to/touch her pussy = DATY
Also licking inbetween your fingers (index and middle finger
making a "V") and pointing to her pussy with
your other hand = DATY
Make a circle with your index finger and thumb with
one hand and then using a finger from your opposite hand
make a repeated penetration of the circle = L3

I've been all over the world with the military and
believe me, EVERY working-girl world-wide, no matter
what language she speaks, knows the words Fucky/Sucky.

Chinese girls also use the term "Boom-Boom" for L3.

It's not that complicated.
If she pretends to not know what you're saying or
signing, she most likely isnt interested in that
activity and is playing dumb.

Another hint.
When you pay for the hour, let the girl see your
pre-counted wad of cash for the tip.
That way she knows you came to play and have enough
cash. Just peel off the door fee from your wad in
front of her. Trust me, shes looking.

Only bring the standard fee +20 just in case she
tries to high-ball you (GPS) or you want to tip her.
Also bring your own condom. You dont want to be denied
for a service because she doesnt have a raincoat.

Dont bring in a huge wad of cash, your wallet or your
primary (expensive) cell phone.
Spas are the worst place about a 2nd girl sneaking
into the room while you're getting a table shower
because she knows youre going to be out of the room
for a solid 15 minutes.

I always hide my condom and cash in the toe of my shoe
behind my sock. It's not a great hiding place but I have
had my clothes moved/looked thru several times
while I was getting a TS.
I havent been robbed yet, so it seems to work for me.

You look strong enough to pull the ears off a K-Girl.
Good luck my young Padawan.
May the monger be with you.
Ha ha! Sign language! Works everytime, everywhere!
Painfully
Great to know, same situation for me, I go to AMP that provide L1 but not receiving them.
Toddcunnings's Avatar
I point
Download a translation app. They seem to appreciate the effort.
I point Originally Posted by Toddcunnings
That works too.
Download a language app to learn basic stuff, including greetings, yes/no and numbers. Then, search the internet for the phrases you want & memorize them. There are several sites for Chinese slang. You can learn how to ask for anything.

My personal favorite in Chinese is BANG-jiao, often exclaimed when you blow a big load all over. It's their word for cumshot. BANG like a gunshot. Jiao for sex. Gunshot sex.

Be aware that Chinese and other Asian languages may use the same word with different inflection for different meanings.

When you try to speak their language, you often get treated better.
SSDman's Avatar
google translate works for hispanics if you wanna talk 1-1. Other translation apps for asian languages.


What I do is a bit of naughty4u1976's advice with my own spin. I like to keep it simple.


1. Take no more money than youre prepared to lose (house + donation. do research beforehand so you know how much leeway you have)



2.The wallet and anything you cant afford to lose stays in the car.
3.If its my first time at a place I let the girl see of all the money in the room and I say its "for everything" so they already know. 9/10 this also kills having to negotiate or deal with upselling unless the girl upsells for "religious purposes".


4.I rub up and down the girl's leg throughout the massage to gage their reactions and see if fun is on the table. If the legs open wider and they give you the sweet spot, stop worrying. If they let you go beween the legs and up to the rear and you dont feel any underwear. Sit back and enjoy. If neither of those happen, sign language might be needed on the flip. If they dont want you touching them, they will tell you. Ocassionally Ive had fun girls be resistant to touching because they want to focus on the massage but theyre outliers.



Im WAYYYY older than you but I do nothing but work out since retirement and women always tell me I look like Im in my mid-twenties. So the response I get nearly every time I go to an amp is "fit = LEO. We scared". I ended up making my routine before I even knew review boards were a thing.


Usually I dont even need the sign language once the flip has happened. I nearly always know if Im getting what I came for before it reaches that point. Ive only had one lady still be nervous and that ended after I pulled her into dfk. I dont recommend that in hindsight.
BigBamboo's Avatar
Just guide her to lay on the table then guide your bare cock towards her mouth. Let the sucking begin baby! Now just grab the back of her head and see how far she can go.
Wiesbadenwillie's Avatar
just pull your dick out. Point to it and the location you want it to go. Even if she speaks perfect English.