Need to vent...or rant...or whatever.

Getting really tired of escorts and their rules. So, I have meet up a couple of girls from BP. Most of my experiences (if not all), have been good.

Problem resides in the rules they've set up. For instance, the first girl I met told me that we could only do it in five positions, no kissing, nothing beyond me penetrating her.

I've had girls tell me they don't do certain positions, they don't do this, don't do that...I mean, what the actual f...? What is this? I am the one "donating", I think we deserve better than this! Another provider told me she wanted me to "cum outside" (I had protection on).

As a married man I don't really need to do 'booty calls', it isn't that I'm 'needy', it's just that sometimes I feel like breaking my routine, I want to taste different women, feel her warmth....or sometimes just one to relax, have fun...I don't call you to be dealing with your annoying rules.

"I don't discuss services over the phone or in person" has got to be the most prominent nuisance so far to me. So, how am I supposed to know what you offer if you've -beautifully- decided to dodged questions regarding the services you 'provide'?

The "I'm protecting myself" excuse it's utter nonsense. I could just twist that to my favor the argue to I might just be talking to a decoy, which could highly be the case.

So, what can we do to avoid sudden unpleasent meetings? Ladies, please be specific in your ads. Add there what you are likely to offer and what you won't offer at all. Don't like an specific race? Be bold about it! Don't just meet someone, take their money, and later bitch to him with your darn rules.

Your services aren't exactly 'cheap' to ontop of it put up with your childish demeanor.

It's supposed to be fun....let's keep it that way, please.

/rant over

Getting really tired of escorts and their rules. So, I have meet up a couple of girls from BP. Most of my experiences (if not all), have been good.

Problem resides in the rules they've set up. For instance, the first girl I met told me that we could only do it in five positions, no kissing, nothing beyond me penetrating her.

I've had girls tell me they don't do certain positions, they don't do this, don't do that...I mean, what the actual f...? What is this? I am the one "donating", I think we deserve better than this! Another provider told me she wanted me to "cum outside" (I had protection on).

As a married man I don't really need to do 'booty calls', it isn't that I'm 'needy', it's just that sometimes I feel like breaking my routine, I want to taste different women, feel her warmth....or sometimes just one to relax, have fun...I don't call you to be dealing with your annoying rules.

"I don't discuss services over the phone or in person" has got to be the most prominent nuisance so far to me. So, how am I supposed to know what you offer if you've -beautifully- decided to dodged questions regarding the services you 'provide'?

The "I'm protecting myself" excuse it's utter nonsense. I could just twist that to my favor the argue to I might just be talking to a decoy, which could highly be the case.

So, what can we do to avoid sudden unpleasent meetings? Ladies, please be specific in your ads. Add there what you are likely to offer and what you won't offer at all. Don't like an specific race? Be bold about it! Don't just meet someone, take their money, and later bitch to him with your darn rules.

Your services aren't exactly 'cheap' to ontop of it put up with your childish demeanor.

It's supposed to be fun....let's keep it that way, please.

/rant over Originally Posted by RoundBootyLover

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Agree

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I've all but given up most the girls from this site because all the stipulations and outrageous pricing..... Brand new girls in welcome section $200 1/2hour with 4 days notice needed.... WTF..... I don't know what time I will have 4 days from now.... BP is the new playground... Use your big head and all will be good..... Your gonna get some duds but there some gems out there.......

I knew I was not alone, that other men out there shared my sentiments concerning the aforementioned issue.

Wish ladies on this page realise that everybody is not a thug, a jerk, and so on and so forth. I take pride in treating women respectfully, with courtesy and gentleness, therefore I expect to be treated equally. Stop your paranoia.

I hang the phone on providers of arrogant attitude, if I sense by their tone of voice that I will recieve anything but pleasure, I thank them and proceed to cut the call.

outofcontrol,

You are correct! You touched a sensible nerve there, I'm afraid, and some ladies may not like you nor me for saying it.

What is up with all these ridiculous rates? Yes, you hold the right to put your prices, and it's up to us to to decide whether or not we meet, however, we go back to the main and hardcore issue of this whole thread:

More often than not clients don't get served what they paid for, on the contrary, some have to endure a hellish, downright horrid session.

Therefore, if you are going to raise your prices and still demand we comply with your stipulations, the least you can do is give your best.

I am in no way being a white knight but most women on this site would not see 95% of the guys on this site because either they are a lesbian, the guy is too old, too ugly, too fat, wrong race or simply she is not attracted to him in the first place. These women are still women. They think differently. They feel differently. They are from Venus and I am from Mars!!! I wish I had a lot more funds or I'd be into a lot more hotties on this site!!!!! Just my 2 cents worth!!

I knew I was not alone, that other men out there shared my sentiments concerning the aforementioned issue.

Wish ladies on this page realise that everybody is not a thug, a jerk, and so on and so forth. I take pride in treating women respectfully, with courtesy and gentleness, therefore I expect to be treated equally. Stop your paranoia.

I hang the phone on providers of arrogant attitude, if I sense by their tone of voice that I will recieve anything but pleasure, I thank them and proceed to cut the call.

outofcontrol,

You are correct! You touched a sensible nerve there, I'm afraid, and some ladies may not like you nor me for saying it.

What is up with all these ridiculous rates? Yes, you hold the right to put your prices, and it's up to us to to decide whether or not we meet, however, we go back to the main and hardcore issue of this whole thread:

More often than not clients don't get served what they paid for, on the contrary, some have to endure a hellish, downright horrid session.

Therefore, if you are going to raise your prices and still demand we comply with your stipulations, the least you can do is give your best. Originally Posted by RoundBootyLover

No, you are by far not alone on this topic!

I'm just going to asking this question first... as a provider may I chime in on this "little" rant/subject, with my personal opinion?

No need to ask, providers can't comment on reviews only

I'm just going to asking this question first... as a provider may I chime in on this "little" rant/subject, with my personal opinion? Originally Posted by DiyosaBaby

Please do! I opened the thread hoping everybody would have a say, so please, don't refrain... share your experiences, thoughts, suggestions, etc

Also, can a Mod have this thread moved to The Sandbox-Dallas, please?

I've had girls tell me they don't do certain positions, they don't do this, don't do that...I mean, what the actual f...? What is this? I am the one "donating", I think we deserve better than this! Another provider told me she wanted me to "cum outside" (I had protection on). Originally Posted by RoundBootyLover

The way I read this is you're likely seeing the wrong providers on here. Change your approach to the hobby, raise your standards and be more of the selective gentleman. Learn to distinguish embellished and honest reviews. Don't be so quick to join the stampede every time a new hottie come on the scene. Do more homework before making your choice and you should get better results.

I second greedy's thoughts. I know that some of us are "ballers on a budget" but many times, you get what you pay for. I used to have a set donation amount that I refused to go above. There were times where I would find a good one but most times it was the same as the OP spoke of. Once I changed my thoughts on hobbying, it's been pretty much smooth sailing ever since. There are still times where the chemistry isn't there between the 2 of us and that can influence the session but all in all, if you do your homework you'll be ok.

I am in no way being a white knight but most women on this site would not see 95% of the guys on this site because either they are a lesbian, the guy is too old, too ugly, too fat, wrong race or simply she is not attracted to him in the first place. These women are still women. They think differently. They feel differently. They are from Venus and I am from Mars!!! I wish I had a lot more funds or I'd be into a lot more hotties on this site!!!!! Just my 2 cents worth!! Originally Posted by bigtonydallas

IMHO, this is true. A lot of providers forget that they are there to PROVIDE a service not to receive "theirs" (receiving "theirs" - or mine, lol, is just a perk in the job). As a provider, we are "hired" (as we're the ones receiving the donation and giving the "service") by the client/hobbyist and as such, I think and believe it's our "job" to please/satisfy the client/hobbyist on multiple levels not just BCD. A lot of providers seem forget or just fail to realize that even tho we may or may not be "attracted" to the client/hobbyist in some way or other... he is attracted to you (the provider) and because of that attraction he (the client/hobbyist) chose ("hired") you/her. Without that initial attraction towards you/her he wouldn't have set the appointment... and us providers would technically in the end be "jobless" it's better that the client/hobbyist be attracted to you/her (the provider) than the other way around. Because in all honesty if the provider only saw clients/hobbyist that only she was attracted to... she'd probably end up broke and out of this business/industry. If there is an attraction of some sort from both parties... well then that's just another plus!

Hell, yeah I can completely understand some minimal "rules" a provider may have (i.e. no BBFS or no clients/hobbyist without refs or who isn't willing to be screened - SAFETY FIRST!), but yet I've heard a list of some providers rules that, yikes, make me wonder why they even do this and make me want to honestly smack them upside the head when they wonder why they either can't seem to get a "regular" or even that many appointments... "uhhh hello!!! These men talk to eachother, weather thru a review (ROS that us providers can't see) or PM or even in the men's lounge about us providers, our services, how it really was, and honest details about if they'd actually recommend us!" There may be a hidden reason why a certain client/hobbyist didn't write a review about a session (other than he didn't have time to), even tho it seemed as tho you/he "enjoyed" your/his time, you/he may not have on a completely different level than just getting yours/his.

A lot of providers don't fully realize that a hobbyist is requesting them (choosing them) for a reason... He (the client/hobbyist) wants a GFE (PSE, BJ, BBBJ, etc...) along with IOP... cause really who wants to be with someone who doesn't seem very interested or like they're enjoying themself and just "going thru the motions" (not me lol)... hell no one wants to "fuck a dead fish" (unless you're into that, lol, who am I to judge!?). If you/he/the client/hobbyist wanted to just get yours/his, I'm sure you/he could just either go to a bar/club pick up a (free) one nighter, get a cheapo off BP, or even go hire a SW, instead you/he comes here gives a higher donation for the service requested and that should (honestly & obviously) come with at the least an IOP.

Ok, I'm done.... long little rant/vent myself on this subject, lol. But yes I see and understand where a lot of you gentlemen are coming from on this subject... I'm sorry!

"I don't discuss services over the phone or in person" has got to be the most prominent nuisance so far to me. So, how am I supposed to know what you offer if you've -beautifully- decided to dodged questions regarding the services you 'provide'?

The "I'm protecting myself" excuse it's utter nonsense. I could just twist that to my favor the argue to I might just be talking to a decoy, which could highly be the case.
/rant over Originally Posted by RoundBootyLover

Since you're a fan of BP, you do realize that if you discus the details of what you want to do over the phone and then exchange money when you get to the room, if you were really talking to LE then you're getting arrested?

I never understood why anyone would discuss any incriminating information over the phone. Prostitution is still illegal and just like driving while drunk, you could do it 99 times but get busted that 1 time and your life could be ruined. I've been hobbying a long time and under no circumstance would I incriminate myself over the phone. That's rule #1; if you're taking the risk with BP but just have to risk showing up and not getting what you want.

As a previous poster said, when you shop for bargains this is what you get. You're on eccie, you can read the reviews of many high quality providers here, so I'd suggest you'd try 1 of the 100s on here instead of BP, which is full of problem.s Happy hunting.

most women on this site would not see 95% of the guys on this site because either they are a lesbian, the guy is too old, too ugly, too fat, wrong race or simply she is not attracted to him in the first place. Originally Posted by bigtonydallas

Ha! That's not just the women on this site.. LOL… But who cares.. that's why we pay 'em.