Creating a No Show/No See list?

I'm thinking of creating a no show/no see list for clients who flake out on appointments.

I avoid advertising on backpage and dealing newbies and lurkers for this very reason. When a client doesn't show up it is a major time waster

So I'm thinking, if a client doesn't show up twice in a row with out a reasonable explanation they would go on my do not see list.

Some feedback from the ladies and gents would be greatly appreciated

Eva

Wow your so sexy! Why would anybody cancel on you? But yea I think you should already have a list like that.

Are you proposing to publish this list or will this be for your private filtering?

It sounds very reasonable to me that you would have a list.

I would think 1 NCNS without valid excuse would probably be list worthy.

I would never think of NCNS you!

I think it is very disrespectful to now show anyone....

do what is best for you..
sounds like you were Plan B or Plan C, and their Plan A got back to them

cant speak for the rest of yall but I do not put up with shitty TCB,, period!!!
I know I missed out on some girls, but so be it..

you dont return emails, texts or phone calls for an appointment request , i dont ask twice. not begging any Provider to see me

you NCNS me once ( without letting me know afterwords), not calling you again
you NCNS me twice, well thats my fault!!!

cant speak for the rest of yall but I do not put up with shitty TCB,, period!!!
I know I missed out on some girls, but so be it..

you dont return emails, texts or phone calls for an appointment request , i dont ask twice. not begging any Provider to see me
Originally Posted by RALPHEY BOY

Well said Ralphey Boy, well said. I consider TCB to be a two-way street and I am always polite, courteous, and have never been a no-show for any appointment I've requested. I'm glad I found ECCIE too because, at last, I can provide a glowing review of the encounter to a ready audience of potential clients that I could steer towards the provider. I've been on escorts.com for awhile but its system of reviews stinks, which I feel is a disservice to everyone. (I digress). Anyway, the point I'm making is that a No Show/No See list should be all-inclusive of both providers and clients. It is also a waste of my (the client's) time when I go through the process of calling, e-mailing, PM'ing, or sending a request through P411 only to get nothing but static in return. This happened to me with one provider in Austin last month when I was there, which forced me to scramble for a plan B at the last second. This despite the fact that I gave three days lead time with a P411 request, followed up with a very polite and cheerful phone call message the day before and an e-mail. That same provider had reviews posted later for the very same days I was in town. Unprofessional and uncourteous are the words that come to mind. So, anyway, well said Ralphey Boy and if we're going to make a list lets include clients AND providers. Sustainer Six, Out!

PS - Toby "Boot up your Ass" Keith performed here at COB Speicher, Iraq tonight. I'm not that big a fan but my Soldiers enjoyed the concert.

Hello and welcome beautiful.

A DNS list should always be one of your most cherished job related materials.
It is a quick reference guide to the bad, the ugly and the worst of the worst.

Some people use name, number, handle and reason for the submission to the list. I, personally also add any other information including a good description or the one given me via vouches because all the previous info can always be changed easily as a means to get to you once again.

For NC/NS: if they have great references I usually am a 3 strikes and your out person- because we all know shit happens and sometimes things cannot be avoided.

The list is a great idea and a must have if you plan on being efficent, safe and organized on top of the game. It eliminates those idiots that just purely plan on wasting your time, never being serious, and never even having the thought of making it up in some way. I mean, some ladies go out of their way to pay for a room, etc and a man will NC/NS and that is very rude. If she has no other appts that day- she is at a loss for the room. Not like she can write off that loss as a business expense either, right. LOL.

Anyway, welcome, take care, be safe and enjoy Austin's crazy wild horny hot gents!

KKA
XOXOXO

It's your business but I don't see why you would post this in coed. To me at least, someone's DNS list should be kept private and followed.

Thanks for posting, you should contribute to other threads....

sixx

What's a valid excuse and how the hell would you know if it is true or not?

1. Sorry babe, I fell asleep and just woke up.

2. My SO came home unexpectedly.

3. The maintenance man showed up at my apt late.

4. I'm sorry, I thought our appointment was for tomorrow.

5. My best friend called and wanted to do lunch.


A NC/NS is complete bullshit from either party. The typical response from providers is that "Real World" shit happens. I don't know what the typical response is from hobbyist but regardless it is bullshit and should not be tolerated. There are very few circumstances that come up that would make it impossible for someone to call or text a cancellation notice.

Anyway, the point I'm making is that a No Show/No See list should be all-inclusive of both providers and clients. It is also a waste of my (the client's) time when I go through the process of calling, e-mailing, PM'ing, or sending a request through P411 only to get nothing but static in return. Originally Posted by Sustainer6

Agreed, it has to go both ways... had a favorite of the board waste 3+ hours of my life on a NS.. not even an "I'm sorry about that." Nice guy side of me says, "Well, sometimes shit just happens.", not so nice guy side of me says "Fuck that noise." All is forgiven, of course, but she won't get the chance to waste my time again either.

I still have a NCNS provider calling me - you'd think after a few months of my NA she would catch on.

I have a list and I do post alerts if it's serious. NCNSs are annoying as hell, but not really alert worthy IMO. Then again, if the same guy who stands you up writes a review on every girl who is 2 minutes late, he deserves it lol. I have a very strict policy on how I reserve an appt. and without a deposit, I don't guarantee a thing. I will also not book again with someone who cancels for ANY reason if they don't give me a cancellation fee. "I got called out of town for work" is such bs, and is normally translated like this..."Someone cheaper came through town last night, and I saw her."

I can understand folks being put out by last minute cancels.

To be upset or expect a cancellation fee for a cancel/reschedule when there is a 24 hours advance notice or even 6 hours advance is ludicrous, IMHO.

My opinion does not matter. It's your business, and you should run it any way you see fit.

And trust me, I will run my business the way I see fit. Notice does not save me any money nor does it replace the 3 guys that may have been told that spot was booked. It is a character flaw in my book to be inconsiderate and not take into account what you cost another person because of bs.

I can assure you if I had to cancel for ANY reason including being sick, I would give the guy that same courtesy and knock off 100 bucks on a future visit, but that's just me.