Welcome to Eccie CK!THIS... is exactly what I long to see in our community! A great example of an experienced member actually reaching out and helping someone up. So much better than watching people drag each other down.
It is frustrating for newbies. For both Male and female. We have all been there and remember what it's like to become 'legit' in this community. It takes a bit of time. Relax and stay a while.
You are exhibiting your exuberance and passion. Harness that and Slow down, pace yourself. Join in the conversation in some of the coed threads. It takes time to get noticed. Eventually a gent will see and contact you. Meanwhile, respond to the gentleman who expressed interest on your welcome thread. Get a conversation going with those gents. Let them get a feel for you. They are screening you for their safety. Patience and understanding is essential in the beginning.
I see you are offering specials. Consider offering a review special. Give priority to established reviewers. Whom other gents will recognize as 'legit'. Once you see a few well established gents you can become a verified provider. The rest will come.
Safety is a priority. Do you know how to 'screen' a gent to keep you safe as well? I'm happy to share my screening process with you.
We are probably the very few waking up at this hour. Monday is a busy day on Eccie. You will probably get some interest then. Get some rest and go with it.
Good Luck and have fun Originally Posted by EmilyEzzell
THIS... is exactly what I long to see in our community! A great example of an experienced member actually reaching out and helping someone up. So much better than watching people drag each other down.Very impressive EE - true class reply. THAT is attractive in a provider and poster.
Thanks EE, your advice was spot on, helpful, gracious, and from my perspective, refreshing. Originally Posted by Caleb
Welcome to Eccie CK!Great advice, but always tread with caution when you offer a discounted session. There are a certain handful of super-hobbyists and moderators who will try to barter a review for a free session. Likewise, there are also a handful of hobbyists who will see you on a review special and who WILL NEVER review you (I've had this happen).
I see you are offering specials. Consider offering a review special. Give priority to established reviewers. Whom other gents will recognize as 'legit'. Once you see a few well established gents you can become a verified provider. The rest will come.
Originally Posted by EmilyEzzell
Lots of successful African American providers here, and plenty of successful plus-sized ladies. The acronym WALDT (we all like different things) definitely applies here. Your audience will find you. Reward them with top flight service, and you'll do fine. But patience is the key. Hang in there. Originally Posted by eccienewbieAmen to that!