FOSTA Has Created A Playground From HELL

I am reading left and right for the past 6 months on the matter of sex workers and hobbyist.

I honestly feel the pain on both sides.

Companions:

Bad clients are using this to their advantage, trying to get providers to lower their rates, push their boundaries, threatening them that they probably won’t be able to make a living if they don’t see them. It may only become worse when the only places to advertise are on overseas platforms. These overseas bitches will let anything happen for the cost of a Taco Cabana Family Meal as their cost of living is much lower than in the USA. Compete with that and to think you are entertaining a client after the fact :/

I am going to share with you some GOLDEN advice to avoid this!!

Quality Ladies!! Not Quantity!! Tolerate only 100% of the respect that you are asking for. Also, clients do not need to wonder if you sold out your gifts to a dumb ass that could tarnish your sparkle. AKA STD or overused goods.

If you find a great gentleman that treats you like a princess, then please take great care of him. He deserves that!!

This will ALL work both ways ladies. It is up to you to set the standards for yourself and to provide a great experience for your gentlemen.

Your clients deserve respect and discretion!! NEVER ever threaten them with the lack of it.

Hobbyist:

I can only imagine what it must be like for you to tap into P411 with one click or Eros and find that it might be gone one day. Where do you find a reputable provider? ECCIE.. here....gone...back...but NO reviews to rely upon. Ok.. let's find another review based board. GONE!!

Would you like to know why?

It is incriminating to write or receive a review where a sex act has taken place and in the same review explain what the donation was. Even more, when there is a link to the providers phone#, profile, your Gmail, IP address, etc.

STOP with the Review based culture already!!!!! I can also add that it's just plain trashy, indiscrete, monger and troll-worthy!! It also puts you at risk!! IP Address. If you want to learn about a providers reputation.. just ask, do your homework, SLOW down. I know you are excited. So am I, but I am not going to jail over it or get caught up in the trashy drama!!! I have GREAT reviews on may boards across our country but have always had a love/hate relationship with them. My best experiences with gentlemen have been over P411 and there are no reviews there!! There is, however, a date and number of Okays requested by an awesome member.

Another option my loves, is to get yourself a sugar baby or 2. There are a few great websites such as Seeking Arrangement or you could even get on a regular dating site ISO casual fling. I do understand that much of the time it is not planned to be in the mood for a companion and last minute still can rule the dragon. Perhaps call upon a lady you have had a great time with in the past.

Let me explain a few things.

1. Do not expect the highest level of premier companionship when you display this sort of low balling behaviour. It never ceases to amaze when a lady has several great reviews then suddenly a poor one. Usually, it is written by a dork that has unreasonable expectations, a sociopath, a nut job, or just made the entire experience very demeaning!! You can accomplish this quickly by trying to barter, request unreasonable or unsafe things, shorting on the donation, or being just plain rude/demanding.

NO provider should ever be this desperate!!

2. NO acronyms. This does not protect you.

3. Wash and Be Clean... You might get more of what you desire if you know how to do this.

4. Be on time or pay the difference. If you need to cancel same day. Pay the cancellation fee. Guess what? We talk! We don't' have client reviews for all the World to read, but we have a HUGE NETWORK. We have more power than you could ever imagine.

5. If you find even a handful of QUALITY providers that can keep it spicy for you, then maybe stick with them, treat them well. They will take care of you!!

6. READ.. DO YOUR HOMEWORK read a ladies profile, website, etc. Most of the time.. she has her desires up front and in order.

This will make for an amazing experience and you can focus on that.

I hope this helps and looking forward to all responders.

I see a lot of good points, but the "review culture" is what made this site.. I find it difficult to cull information even when there are reviews, and next to impossible when there are none.. how is "research" supposed to find this great information you suggest is there for the taking?

also, you totally lost me regarding the low-fee accepting Taco Cabana Bitches. they are not your competition, nor anyone here's concern.

Love this👏👏

A review doesn't prove anything. It really doesn't. Any guy can type whatever he wants. Doesn't make it true, provable, or admissible in court. Any lawyer who's worth two dimes will tear it apart on the stand. Sex between consenting adults is completely legal. Prove the guy paid for it. It's legal to give someone money...money that's yours to give away. As long as there's reasonable doubt as to why one gave money to another, it's all conjecture.

Besides, all this shit is just scare tactic material. The powers that be are worse sinners than we are, and we as a People need to quit putting up with their bullshit. These pussy grabbing morons waste our tax money (whatever amounts they don't pocket), make ridiculous laws that they themselves don't follow, let corporations bend us over, while foreigners point and laugh. They spend [our] money on $5,000 an hour escorts, but want us arrested for doing the same thing. DUI's?? They got a shitload of them. "Jail" for these dipshits, the low percentage of the ones that go, are some decked out farmhouse in Nebraska, where they get to move about freely, play golf and order gourmet tacos (on our dime, of course), while the money they stole from us collects interest and get used by their families. Why the hell are virtually all politicians millionaires, btw?


Sooner or later, the American people are going to have to say enough is enough.

I see a lot of good points, but the "review culture" is what made this site.. I find it difficult to cull information even when there are reviews, and next to impossible when there are none.. how is "research" supposed to find this great information you suggest is there for the taking?

also, you totally lost me regarding the low-fee accepting Taco Cabana Bitches. they are not your competition, nor anyone here's concern. Originally Posted by Chung Tran

What Mr. Tran said! In today’s culture, people don’t go to a restaurant, see a movie or buy a book without reading reviews or getting details about it. This is exactly what the Internet is for and your comments about incriminating yourself for writing about an encounter that may or may not have happened? Well, I respectfully recommend that you read up a little more on the letter of the laws within FOSTA and your state.

Big nothing burger.

Site will be back once it is adjusted.
Just like this one.

Little late though with your rights..

They wanted to take away gun rights and I didn't own any guns so I was ok with that.

Then they wanted to take the 4th amendment away and I had nothing to hide so I was ok with that.

Now they want to take away the 1st so that we can't......................... ....

I am reading left and right for the past 6 months on the matter of sex workers and hobbyist.

I honestly feel the pain on both sides.

Companions:

Bad clients are using this to their advantage, trying to get providers to lower their rates, push their boundaries, threatening them that they probably won’t be able to make a living if they don’t see them. It may only become worse when the only places to advertise are on overseas platforms. These overseas bitches will let anything happen for the cost of a Taco Cabana Family Meal as their cost of living is much lower than in the USA. Compete with that and to think you are entertaining a client after the fact :/

I am going to share with you some GOLDEN advice to avoid this!!

Quality Ladies!! Not Quantity!! Tolerate only 100% of the respect that you are asking for. Also, clients do not need to wonder if you sold out your gifts to a dumb ass that could tarnish your sparkle. AKA STD or overused goods.

If you find a great gentleman that treats you like a princess, then please take great care of him. He deserves that!!

This will ALL work both ways ladies. It is up to you to set the standards for yourself and to provide a great experience for your gentlemen.

Your clients deserve respect and discretion!! NEVER ever threaten them with the lack of it.

Hobbyist:

I can only imagine what it must be like for you to tap into P411 with one click or Eros and find that it might be gone one day. Where do you find a reputable provider? ECCIE.. here....gone...back...but NO reviews to rely upon. Ok.. let's find another review based board. GONE!!

Would you like to know why?

It is incriminating to write or receive a review where a sex act has taken place and in the same review explain what the donation was. Even more, when there is a link to the providers phone#, profile, your Gmail, IP address, etc.

STOP with the Review based culture already!!!!! I can also add that it's just plain trashy, indiscrete, monger and troll-worthy!! It also puts you at risk!! IP Address. If you want to learn about a providers reputation.. just ask, do your homework, SLOW down. I know you are excited. So am I, but I am not going to jail over it or get caught up in the trashy drama!!! I have GREAT reviews on may boards across our country but have always had a love/hate relationship with them. My best experiences with gentlemen have been over P411 and there are no reviews there!! There is, however, a date and number of Okays requested by an awesome member.

Another option my loves, is to get yourself a sugar baby or 2. There are a few great websites such as Seeking Arrangement or you could even get on a regular dating site ISO casual fling. I do understand that much of the time it is not planned to be in the mood for a companion and last minute still can rule the dragon. Perhaps call upon a lady you have had a great time with in the past.

Let me explain a few things.

1. Do not expect the highest level of premier companionship when you display this sort of low balling behaviour. It never ceases to amaze when a lady has several great reviews then suddenly a poor one. Usually, it is written by a dork that has unreasonable expectations, a sociopath, a nut job, or just made the entire experience very demeaning!! You can accomplish this quickly by trying to barter, request unreasonable or unsafe things, shorting on the donation, or being just plain rude/demanding.

NO provider should ever be this desperate!!

2. NO acronyms. This does not protect you.

3. Wash and Be Clean... You might get more of what you desire if you know how to do this.

4. Be on time or pay the difference. If you need to cancel same day. Pay the cancellation fee. Guess what? We talk! We don't' have client reviews for all the World to read, but we have a HUGE NETWORK. We have more power than you could ever imagine.

5. If you find even a handful of QUALITY providers that can keep it spicy for you, then maybe stick with them, treat them well. They will take care of you!!

6. READ.. DO YOUR HOMEWORK read a ladies profile, website, etc. Most of the time.. she has her desires up front and in order.

This will make for an amazing experience and you can focus on that.

I hope this helps and looking forward to all responders.

Originally Posted by yourkinkycompanion

well said hun!!!!!!!

What Mr. Tran said! In today’s culture, people don’t go to a restaurant, see a movie or buy a book without reading reviews or getting details about it. This is exactly what the Internet is for and your comments about incriminating yourself for writing about an encounter that may or may not have happened? Well, I respectfully recommend that you read up a little more on the letter of the laws within FOSTA and your state. Originally Posted by bigdon71

It's a review based culture. I depend on reviews and it's made hobbying better. Looks aren't everything, but they are very important of course. Bedroom skills are important too!

Many ladies oversell bedroom skills, or are uninterested with clients. Reviews help us dudes filter that out.

I don't consider myself a "hobbyist" but just a guy who likes to see sex workers.

I understand some of the problems providers have with the "review board culture" and I will admit that over the years I've been involved in seeing sex workers I have seen some excesses and bad treatment of providers by guys who think they are hot shit because they have a lot of reviews or just belong to a popular review board.

But on the other hand, what brought about the review board phenomenon? There are probably still a few guys here from way back in the day and probably a few providers from back then as well but I'm guessing not all that many. Guys started using message boards to gain and spread information to keep themselves safe and to avoid being ripped off. Before the boards a guy was taking a pretty big chance with each date, not knowing if she was legit, looked like her pics, had a pimp, did cash and dash, had other issues, or was the dreaded "one and done" which meant even though you paid for the HOUR she might be gone in less than 15 minutes if she got you to pop quick.

I remember with fondness the first Yahoo club that popped up with information on the St. Louis area. Then an actual message board appeared, very crude and basic by today's standards but a reliable place to exchange information and to learn who to see and who to avoid. Wheeler's St. Louis Escort Review Board, or something like that. It literally changed the escort scene in St. Louis, much for the better. The board and reviews didn't guarantee a successful date but they sure as hell improved the odds!

I for one, DO NOT want to go back to the "old days" with no reviews and no way to share information with each other.

As one with a few"ENCOUNTERS" I can honestly say the over half my "ENCOUNTERS" have been based on previous explorers adventures. You just have to divide them by 50% for truth. We need that info that's not just from the ladies point of view

What are any thoughts of guys answering questions about services? If some one were to PM me I would be happy to give the lady a thumbs up or down. Perhaps even a review with all of the info that we used to get here. As far as date sites are there any out there that are not a rip off?
Yes prices are going up but you can expect great things for the money. To be honest it easier to find a great time here than finding a person to repair my car.

We need that info that's not just from the ladies point of view Originally Posted by burkalini

OMG thanks for laugh.

Your sig line reads...

"All reviews and statements are fantasy and for amusement only. So fuck off if you can't take a joke."

So you need false, fake, exaggerated stories to make fellow mongers look like Ron Jeremy, why? That are statements of fantasy and amusement?

So please do tell..what info you NEED? Or are you referring to needing the info so you can jerk it to the above mentioned fantasy stories?

Y'all just keep thinking reviews are safe from the po-po too.
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The "Review Culture" is disgusting. Why can't people post a simple review that reads like this:

"Met Sasha for dinner and drinks and had a wonderful time. I felt safe, and enjoyed her companionship. Gentlemen, I recommend that you see her."

I cant believe that people still defend that nonsense when you are basically self-incriminating yourself and anything that you share through any medium of communication whether voice, email, or text is discoverable and can harm you. No form of VPN, Proxy, or encryption can help you if you were blatantly dumb enough to post self-incriminating comments of yourself online.

I can agree with this

OMG thanks for laugh.

Your sig line reads...

"All reviews and statements are fantasy and for amusement only. So fuck off if you can't take a joke."

So you need false, fake, exaggerated stories to make fellow mongers look like Ron Jeremy, why? That are statements of fantasy and amusement?

So please do tell..what info you NEED? Or are you referring to needing the info so you can jerk it to the above mentioned fantasy stories?

Y'all just keep thinking reviews are safe from the po-po too.
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Originally Posted by Gabrielle

Did I ever say they were safe. Did I say they were 100% true. I do have a brain. Your reply and the way you worded it is EXACTLY why we need reviews. We need to know when we have angry hate my job types out there hustling for encounters.