Pullin' Hair, Smackin' Ass, and all that

Probably a silly question but I want to ask. What is it with pullin' hair, smackin' ass, and all that? Some of the sweetest ladies want their hair pulled... hard! And smackin' her ass seems to be the norm, rather than the exception. Not sure I even want to go to the choking, etc.

Of course, at my age, you better not screw with what hair I have left, and I hardly have enough ass to cover a commode, much less smack.

So, ladies, (and gents, if you feel so inclined), how about a healthy discussion on why you like such things, how they make you feel, and how I'm supposed to know. Just curious.

Some people like the rough mentality. I myself have never done any of it. I'd rather just feel on a girl's ass but I've actually never had anyone request that I do any of the rough stuff. I'm not a fan of choking or slapping the face. That shit actually pisses me off. When I see it in porn it's an instant boner killer for me. I wager that it has to do with the fact that I have a friend that was abused by her boyfriend (now husband...ugh, don't get me started on that).