Are there any good hook-up sites left, not Doublelist?

I got banned from Doublelist because I put myself out there looking for a lover, and made mention that they can stay with me rent-free. That wasn't the first time I got in trouble there. I got a temporary ban because of a post where basically all I said was "I have a hard dick, come fuck me." Well, what good is that website if you can't even post that? Meanwhile, all the WOMEN on Doublelist can post whatever they want, asking for drugs and shit, and they don't get banned. Long story short, Doublelist is garbage. Does anybody know of some good alternatives, that aren't run by puritans?