Bad Luck or What!

Over the last 5 years that I have been playing this game I have run into some bad luck or at least it seems like it to me. It seems everytime I find a nice Indy girl after a short time they retire or move on or just don't surface anymore. Everytime I find a good agency it seems like they close up shop after a short time. Everytime I find a good Rub girl she retires or closes up shop. I like to find two or three places to go and then stay and get to know the lady or ladies that are there. I do not do notels so the search is on again.

That really sucks. Definitely bad luck.

Damr Bro, that really does suck.

BTW, If I give you the names of a few indies, bodyrub girls and Agencies that I really really like...a..er..ah.....will you agree to stay away?

Just say'n.

I guess it depends on what you mean by "short time". This hobby, by nature, is always going through changes and new flavor-of-the-months. That's just the way it is.

I'm sure the girls feel the same way. They think they finally found one who's a perfect gentleman and a great tipper, then they turn around, and he's gone. Moved on to a new plaything.

If you ever run into one that sticks around for a long time and she manages to keep the fire lit for you, consider yourself lucky.

All I can say is that you enjoy them while you can and don't get too attached b/c chances are, they'll be gone before you know it.

Damr Bro, that really does suck.

BTW, If I give you the names of a few indies, bodyrub girls and Agencies that I really really like...a..er..ah.....will you agree to stay away?

Just say'n. Originally Posted by CivilBarrister

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Quote: Kinkynasty - All I can say is that you enjoy them while you can and don't get too attached b/c chances are, they'll be gone before you know it.
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LOL CB!

So True Kinky..

This Hobby of ours is short lived for most of the women in it. It wasn't meant to be a long term career thing. If you do find an escort who is in it for the long haul then you are a lucky guy.
The ladies come and go, and flow with the ebb and tide as they might say, that's just how it is.

You can kind of look at as with the Modeling biz, or with an Athlete, or in the Strip club business, at some point they have to (or desire) retire. Unless of course they can keep it up and the body and sex drive can withstand.

Babe - I agree with you.

If I wanted a LONG TERM relationship, I would actually ask a lady to spend the ENTIRE night!

That is as long term as I am interested in for the time being.

Babe - I agree with you.

If I wanted a LONG TERM relationship, I would actually ask a lady to spend the ENTIRE night!

That is as long term as I am interested in for the time being. Originally Posted by CivilBarrister

CB although we kind of got into it earlier i find your comment quite amusing.

Over the last 5 years that I have been playing this game I have run into some bad luck or at least it seems like it to me. It seems everytime I find a nice Indy girl after a short time they retire or move on or just don't surface anymore. Everytime I find a good agency it seems like they close up shop after a short time. Everytime I find a good Rub girl she retires or closes up shop. I like to find two or three places to go and then stay and get to know the lady or ladies that are there. I do not do notels so the search is on again. Originally Posted by Ramman

That's not bad luck... that's the normal sales cycle.

The biggest problem I had training young sales executives was on the necessity to refill their sales prospect "pipeline". They would make a few sales and then they would stop prospecting for new business. When they lost an account they would go through a slump while they were scouting for new prospects.

TMFT sales training 101:

1. Constantly look for new prospects, even when you are making your quota.
2. Keep your prospect pipeline full so that you always have something working.
3. Make your sales calls a mixture of visiting established clients and prospecting new ones.
4. If you have a full pipeline you never have to make "Cold Calls" (BP, Craigslist).
5. Never let your pipeline run dry!

Next week we will cover Overcoming Objections and Closing the Sale.

fly by night operation....people change and so do habits. memories last forever!!!

Lucky you......that happens to me in real life too.

on the other hand, if you really do click with a lady, she will continue to see you even after she retires, but she will want to be UTR.
and do not for any reason mess that up
this does happen a lot, i speak from experience

I know I have seen several ladies after retirement UTR. The problem is that they go and get regular jobs and the only time I can hobby is during working hours. So it makes it hard to keep seeing them. It is time to move on and put my time in at another location just to get things the way I like it and then boom she will retire too.

It's interesting that although there are quite a lot of long-time hobbyists(some hobbying for decades even), most providers "retire" after a brief stint as a provider.
Ever wonder why? I mean, the money is fantastic. It's all about sex, and we all like sex, right?

Think about it. H

It is disappointing when you find an ATF and she's suddenly no longer available. But it's balanced by the thrill of finding a new playmate that you click with, and all the sudden you've got a new ATF.

But at least for me, you never forget your favorite, even after she's gone.

fly by night operation....people change and so do habits. memories last forever!!! Originally Posted by windowshopper

Well Said windowshopper!!