Thoughts on losing V-card to a provider

  • zyzz
  • 07-20-2013, 07:44 PM
I'm 24 now and it is becoming increasingly frustrating that I'm a virgin. It's not because I am socially awkward or anything. I am decent looking. I'm a little short. I can hold conversations. I just wasted my time on the wrong girl for many years. And just being inexperienced is really hard when 99% of the girls I know are not. Also, I do not like the drama that comes along with having relationships. Anyway, I plan on losing it soon to a provider. I have thought about it for a while and think it is the best idea.
DEAR_JOHN's Avatar
First of all, try to set up an appointment with a mature provider, instead of some 18-21 year old hottie on backpage. You need someone who would pamper you for a full hour versus some backpage young-un who just wants your $$$ and wants you to leave as soon as the first bell is rung. You need a lady who will give you the full hour and who knows how to handle many different things that may occur within your paid time frame.

If a white girl is your thing, I would suggest Allison of Houston or Fancy in heels. If you like A-A or mixed racial ladies, I would suggest Alli.
I was 25 when my cherry got popped... to a co-worker who was new to the office on a night where we went out on a spontaneous date. The point is, I didn't have a "relationship" with her and barely knew her, but it was a great time and I didn't regret it. I like DJ's comments. Try to pick a quality lady with good reviews here on eccie who is not going to rush you.
I would go with Fancy, she has really good extended rates. I would also be upfront with the virginity issue. Hope you have a great first time!
Like DJ says, an experienced provider will give you a good basic idea about what you should expect from a woman with superior skills and appreciation of sex.

I would recommend Allison, hands down...and let her know about the experience issues.
But be warned, Allison, Fancy, Sexy Cassie...and many others on here may provide an experience that few "civilians" will be able to match .

So try several different ones to get some broader experience...

Oh...try not to laugh at the civilian girls you will see later that think they are hot...

Have a great time.
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r9
  • zyzz
  • 07-20-2013, 10:04 PM
Thanks everyone! Yeah I heard the horrors of backpage and will be sure to stay away.
Like DJ says, an experienced provider will give you a good basic idea about what you should expect from a woman with superior skills and appreciation of sex.

I would recommend Allison, hands down...and let her know about the experience issues.
But be warned, Allison, Fancy, Sexy Cassie...and many others on here may provide an experience that few "civilians" will be able to match.
r9 Originally Posted by rhino9
Yeah, don't be surprised if your first civilian sexual encounter doesn't know the precise moment to shove a finger up your ass during a blowjob.
Solemate62's Avatar
Would it not be interesting to post this in ISO? I would think you would get loads of exotic offers from Providers, looking to meet the challenge! Then, you can be in the position of screening them and you can pick the 'lucky' lady!
Don't book a whole hour though. You'll be done in a second!
I was 24 when I lost mine, and it was to a provider.....that was 30 years ago and her name was Ashley. It was awesome. I would suggest that you see someone who allows MSOG, because it could be quick. Pick the 'girl of your dreams'. Don't settle. Get a nice room, not an AMP.

Just my 2 cents.
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  • zme
  • 07-21-2013, 11:48 AM
I was over 30 when I lost mine, so you hardly have to worry...
bigpokie's Avatar
I totally agree with Dear John, great advice. Also if you do book a whole hr (and I think you should) you need to be sure to book with the right provider. One that gives multi pops and will take the time to give you the GF experience. Being a virgin and at your age you could probably go 3 times in a hr without breaking a sweat. Read the reviews and give preference to the recommended providers suggested in this thread and you'll have a de-virginizing experience many here wish they would have had, including me. Good luck and whoever you go with let us know how it went.
DEAR_JOHN's Avatar
I wouldn't consider telling them you're a virgin, but say something like you aren't very experienced where sex is concerned. To the right lady telling her you're a virgin is OK, however to the wrong lady it could carry negative implications.
mescolanza's Avatar
For AA i recommend champagne brown. Laid back and professional
I would recommend Angelcakes or Busty Lea.
Or you can do Angelcakes and Busty Lea