Is it really so hard to believe that women get into sex work because they enjoy it to some degree?

And I'm talking about all aspects like strip clubs, only fans, etc, etc.
I ask because I know a number of people who seem to fall into the "All sex workers are trafficked" camp, and seem to genuinely believe there is no woman that would ever go into this field of work willingly.
Maybe I'm just naïve, but something about just never sounded right to me.
ben dover's Avatar
I know a few that do enjoy it a big percentage of the time.

It's not all about trafficking. It's more about what Staff Edit - Biomed1 they have.
FightFan's Avatar
It is my experience that most sex workers enjoy their chosen career . I have been more into Sugaring than escorts for a while now. The lines are definitely blurry between the two .

For instance a decent looking college student can be a barista for 15 an hour or make 4 - 5 hundred for having a good meal and great sex with an older mature man . Now the ambitious good looking college girl will have 4 SDs per week . That is in the neighborhood of 2K a week all with no taxes and low grocery and entertainment bills . Mind you she even got to chose her SDs so she is having sex with men she selected . Naturally she enjoys this arrangement.

I would imagine most enjoy cash more than the sex . Some sex workers are somewhat indentured servants and don't enjoy it ie mostly the Asian Persuasians you see at AMPs and cheap escort sites . Most of those women owe money because someone else paid to get them to the States. Voluntary indentured servitude .

In short most sex workers enjoy their chosen career path . No woman wants to be a sex worker just for the sex . Money and the ease of getting money for sex work is the main motivation . These women do not do it for the pleasure of sex . For women sex is a tool to earn income . Men however think sex is mainly for pleasure .
Cendell M's Avatar
I enjoy my career and was never forced into this, I’m an independent worker that loves her job. Plus I’m in my prime makes it even better!
Jacuzzme's Avatar
Guys pass their prime before they can afford a happy meal.
It is my experience that most sex workers enjoy their chosen career . I have been more into Sugaring than escorts for a while now. The lines are definitely blurry between the two .

For instance a decent looking college student can be a barista for 15 an hour or make 4 - 5 hundred for having a good meal and great sex with an older mature man . Now the ambitious good looking college girl will have 4 SDs per week . That is in the neighborhood of 2K a week all with no taxes and low grocery and entertainment bills . Mind you she even got to chose her SDs so she is having sex with men she selected . Naturally she enjoys this arrangement.

I would imagine most enjoy cash more than the sex . Some sex workers are somewhat indentured servants and don't enjoy it ie mostly the Asian Persuasians you see at AMPs and cheap escort sites . Most of those women owe money because someone else paid to get them to the States. Voluntary indentured servitude .

In short most sex workers enjoy their chosen career path . No woman wants to be a sex worker just for the sex . Money and the ease of getting money for sex work is the main motivation . These women do not do it for the pleasure of sex . For women sex is a tool to earn income . Men however think sex is mainly for pleasure . Originally Posted by FightFan
That's honestly why I'd probably prefer escorts then sugar babies, I'd rather we just get to the point then for someone to pretend they don't want me to spontaneously get a heart attack the moment she gets my money. Also I have to imagine former sugar babies are gonna have....unusually high standards once they can't sugar baby anymore.
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Regardless of the type, the lady can earn twice the money (Or more) in half the time.
This explains 90+% of the escorts on the various sites who are not pimped or trafficked. Then (not 'than', 'then') there are the MILFs who do it for the sex, as their lives are so otherwise busy due to children, and work, that they have no time nor inclination for a boyfriend. And they aren't going to forgo sex altogether.
ICU 812's Avatar
We,,, Dancers are often Lesbien or Bt. Many are at the clubs to meet other hot women.
We,,, Dancers are often Lesbien or Bt. Many are at the clubs to meet other hot women. Originally Posted by ICU 812
I'm assuming you mean bi and that doesn't surprise me in the least. I can imagine most people who genuinely enjoy sexual escapades tend to either swing both ways or like batting for the home team
yourdesire's Avatar
I love what I do. I got into it because I had started becoming quite promiscuous as I got older.
DNinja69's Avatar
I have known some providers that really enjoyed their jobs and others who either grew to despise us guys or stay in the game past their burnt level because of the money but who hasn't done that at some point in one job or another? For some its just money and to me I don't really care so long as we have a good time they can sell me with some good IOP but the ones who really get into it that can be a fucking great time!
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  • BLM69
  • 10-21-2023, 04:03 PM
Let's call it what it is, They enjoy the $ that they couldn't make anywhere else, this is why most stay past a hookers prime
Alyssa XOXO's Avatar
Mind Over Matter=MONEY.

*Only Speaking For MYSELF...* (For The Sensitive Folk).

Have a great night and Happy Hobbying!
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  • BLM69
  • 10-25-2023, 12:38 PM
Mind Over Matter=MONEY.

*Only Speaking For MYSELF...* (For The Sensitive Folk).

Have a great night and Happy Hobbying! Originally Posted by Alyssa XOXO
I'm glad someone is honest around here, maybe the others like fat old tricks and enjoy their hairy balls and the $ don't really matter
I'm glad someone is honest around here, maybe the others like fat old tricks and enjoy their hairy balls and the $ don't really matter Originally Posted by BLM69
Idk man I know a couple of girls who unironically like beer guts. No I don't get it either.