Awhile back I started a thread about members getting along. I'll be the first to say that I was pretty damn delusional to even entertain that notion. I don't think a day goes by without at least one thread having a pissing match going on. I'd think I was in the wrong place if I didn't see at least one going on. WTF was I thinking?!?!? So be it, it's going to happen.
But pissing matches can turn pretty ugly. When it starts to cross the line of character assassination, threats of spreading rumors, or even worse yet, having someone's private life including their families involved, it's one of the most despicable things someone can do. Or maybe the root cause of those public pissing matches is one of the things previously mentioned to begin with.
People not getting along is going to happen. But when it crosses that line of trying to destroy someone's life, those members shouldn't even be allowed here. I can only hope to hell that staff and even other members find it as intolerable as I do. Some people get off on being vindictive. I despise those who do, and people who's goal seems to be to hurt others in the worst possible way.