P411 Ladies - question about activities

randall flagg's Avatar
I was just wondering about ladies who list MSOG in their P411 profile. In the last six months I have seen 8 ladies for the first time - and in six of these meetings -( all "scheduled for 1 hour" ) --- with anywhere from 20- 30 minutes remaining - I have been basically told the playtime was over. Never in these exact words -- but the lady would get completely dressed - or ask if I wanted anything to drink before I leave - or asked if I wanted to shower before I left.

I take these as indications that playtime is over. All of these meetings have been with highly positively reviewed ladies.Is it my responsibility to ask for it after the first round?

I would welcome input from providers as to if I am reading too much into their actions . Input from hobbyists who have experienced this would also be appreciated on how they handled the situation.

BTW - of the two that have initiated more play time - I have repeated with them about once per month.
EmilyEzzell's Avatar
These ladies have msog listed in their activities on P411?

Perhaps when you make your appt request or your pre screening request you could mention you are interested in msog. Most ladies won't discuss activities. However, When introducing yourself (while saying all the nice things to get a ladies attention) you mention you would like msog.

For example in your pre screening or appt request on P411...
Hi xyz, I love your profile and reviews. I would love to spend some time with a lady of your caliber. You seem to enjoy "this" or "that" and I do too. I also love msog. Hope that works for you. If so, I look forward to hearing back from you. Also, I really connect with (name the two providers who offer you msog with whom you've repeated) on my okay list. If you check with them they might give you insight into what type of gentleman I am and how I spend my time with a lady. Downside is the xyz provider needs a bit of time to contact these ladies and wait for their response before she gets back with you. So you might not get any "right now" appts. Plus side is you get your msog

I think the line i put in bold is key. It lets her know yet she doesn't have to answer about activities directly. She either declines the appt, accepts, or tells you off because she didn't read the subtley. Hopefully that won't matter because she checks with the two ladies you mentioned. Be sure to ask those two ladies if they will let any ladies inquiring about you know you are msog (they can put it in the notes box) That keeps xyz provider from directly talking about activities with you. It's done through the ladies. If those two ladies are sharing and caring

I think communication is key. It's awkward, I know. Just don't expect them to answer directly to any activities.

Edit to say....yes, those are subtle hints that time is up. I'm impressed you understood the hints. Just wish it was closer to the hour time you paid for with her.
theboss21422's Avatar
Like em says but way shorter closed mouths don't get fed
randall flagg's Avatar
Thank you for the advice Emily. I was intrigued by your first sentence/question

"These ladies have msog listed in their activities on P411? "

One of the options on a ladies P411 profile is "ACTIVITIES ****** ENJOYS IN PRIVATE"

Here is an example of list by a provider

Around the World Asian Cowgirl BBBJ BBBJTCIM
BBBJTCNQNS BDSM BGB (Boy Girl Boy) BLS
Bisexual Body Rub CFS Couple Friendly
Cowgirl DATO DATY DFK
Doggie Style Domination Doubles FBSM
Facial Foot Fetish GFE HJ
LFK MSOG Missionary PSE
Pearl Necklace Photos/Video PornStar Prostate Massage
Reverse Body Rub Reverse Cowgirl Russian Sixty Nine
TUMA Toys Toys for Boys

This is a tool which I find invaluable in determining if I would want to make an appt.

My usual request thru P411 would never mention anything other than time requested

ie: Hi *****, I saw your profile on P411 and would love to enjoy the pleasure of your company for an hour on Wednesday Jan 4th

Also - if the provider would look at my profile - they would find the following note
"If MSOG is listed on a ladies profile, and if time permits, I appreciate an effort made on her part. "

I guess this brings up another question - when an appt is requested from a client - does the provider pay any attention to the preferences of the client as clearly listed on his P411 profile?
EmilyEzzell's Avatar
Much shorter to put in your P411 profile indeed. Sure beats my response. I'm a wordy knucklehead who is up too late indeed.
I read a gents profile. Not all ladies do. To make certain she reads yours, request she do that before responding.
pyramider's Avatar
You might need to increase your time to 90 minutes or two hours. Two many fucktards want MSOG on an one hour session and use that attempt to increase their time, especially if you just O'd and there is 20 minutes left. Can you recover that quickly and release within the remaining 20 minutes? Probably not ...
fletch's Avatar
Can you recover that quickly and release within the remaining 20 minutes? Originally Posted by pyramider
Yes
This is real, real, simple. If they list an activity on P411 but will not honor that activity with out a damn good reason, report them to Gina. She WILL fix the problem with the provider. One way or another. This exact thing is yet another reason I book through P411. If a provider P411 trys to pull any shit with me, I take it to Gina and that is the end of it. If they advertise a specific activity on P411, I would never think to enquire about it. Again, it is one of the benifits of using P411.

And it does not matter if I can pop a 2ed time in 20 or 15 or 10 minutes. They advertised I can try so I am entitled to try. Just as they are entitled to end the session when my time is up, even if I never pop.
Well spoken, OBSG.
I've never had a P411 provider cut the hour session short.
Grace Preston's Avatar
My philosophy is... unless you are running over your time, I NEVER get dressed before you. Some guys choose of their own accord to get back to work or wherever they need to be, others want to rest, relax, and go for round 2. I let my company at the moment dictate my action.... and I stay naked so that it is known that I'm not pushing you out my door until your time is up.
Dittychaser's Avatar
This is real, real, simple. If they list an activity on P411 but will not honor that activity with out a damn good reason, report them to Gina. She WILL fix the problem with the provider. One way or another. This exact thing is yet another reason I book through P411. If a provider P411 trys to pull any shit with me, I take it to Gina and that is the end of it. If they advertise a specific activity on P411, I would never think to enquire about it. Again, it is one of the benifits of using P411.

And it does not matter if I can pop a 2ed time in 20 or 15 or 10 minutes. They advertised I can try so I am entitled to try. Just as they are entitled to end the session when my time is up, even if I never pop. Originally Posted by OldButStillGoing
No, that is incorrect. Gina will not police that section. I reported a provider to her once for this exact thing. The provider had included an activity in her profile and then told me she did not do that once I had given her the donation. Gina would not even make an inquiry with the provider. She told me I should report it in a review or in a post.
L.A.'s Avatar
  • L.A.
  • 06-24-2013, 05:21 PM
There are a lot of p411 providers that just check EVERY single activity box regardless if that's something they really provide or not.
YMMV gives a provider an open ended "way out" of certain activities if she's not into a particular client. MSOG should not be included. If she accepts the donation and MSOG is on the table it's not about how you get there, it's about how many times you get there!
pyramider's Avatar
All dates, real life and hobby life, are YMWV. Get used to it. I am sure Gina does not give a flying rat's ass if I did not get my 83rd nut during my session. Gina has better things to do.