Sorry to hear about your missed session, ksmarine. Haylie looks like a fun young lady and, from other posters, it sounds like she's fairly level-headed and, as growler points out, she did attempt to communicate. She looks pretty damn good, too, which doesn't hurt! Last minute cancellations are definitely a part of the process (and goes both ways), as Destiny points out in her recent thread, as well.
While we applaud Haylie's effort to communicate, the problem is obviously with her method of communication. Sending an ECCIE message two minutes before the scheduled session is not the best form! I don't have the ECCIE website up and in my hand two minutes prior to the session. I am probably in her parking lot/driveway and I have my phone in hand, which readily and effectively receives phones calls and texts with little interaction on my part. An ECCIE message 2 hours or more prior is fine. But not that close to the session time. Lesson learned, Haylie?
Hope Haylie makes it up to you, ksmarine.
Originally Posted by Wizard of Ahhhhs
Great post! There are absolutely no hard feelings on my part. If Haylie were to contact me and offer to make amends I'll gladly eat my words and detail what would undoubtedly be an excellent experience (after a spanking or two, of course
) Maybe I'm naive, but my guess is something really did come up, and I hope that whatever situation arose has since been resolved. And like you said - the issue isn't with the cancellation, but the timing and method of communication. I've been through 3 tours in Afghanistan & Iraq, so I certainly understand that $hit happens. And when it does, all you can do is communicate and make reparations if warranted.
Sorry you that didn't get to meet with her. But she did commuicate to you that she wouldn't be able to meet with you. All be it at the last moment. Personally I wouldn't have posted this.But that's me..........last minute cancellations are just a part of this little world. It happens both ways.
Originally Posted by growler
There have been several times I didn't post a review when I had a less than desirable experience, a provider posted old or phony pictures, or they simply didn't want too many reviews. I'll freely admit that I'm not as young, good-looking, muscular or energetic as I I used to be. But if I cancel on a provider 2 minutes before our meeting, I'll fully expect to log on and see my offense detailed. Not only is the provider out the money spent on the hotel room, but their time has been wasted and the opportunity cost associated (as Destiny detailed). And last time I checked this site was called the Escort Client Community Information Exchange (ECCIE). If we're not going to detail our experiences (both positive and negative), what's the point of the site? We all understand the risks associated with our hobby. And we, as consumers, are willing to pay a premium for safety, discretion, and communication. We pay that premium because providers have to weed through the creeps, jerks, no-shows, stings, deadbeats, and god knows what else. And if we don't report our bad experiences, than the excellent services provided by the likes of Destiny, BChloe, Sins, and countless others aren't considered as valuable and rare as they actually are.