About 6 months ago, a thought occurred to me about the adult community and it's formalities, structure, stereotypes, & dangers directly related to it. Over the past 5 years, I have learned the hard way pertaining to more than one of those factors unfortunately. Constantly analyzing the fundamentals of it all, I came up with a solution.
I chuckle to myself over the absurd reality of a "heroine of the hobby" scenario I act out in my mind when considering the many different endings to this princess's fairy tail. I am amused at the thought of introducing a different strategy to a very well rehearsed hustle approach I notice amongst the other profiles and from hearsay.
I know to each their own, so they say, but consider the benefits to the greater good some innovative strategies may bring. What would those changes entail? How would you do things differently? Which protocol would you adhere to and why? Do you believe possibly that the government and /or media has produced so much propaganda over the last 60 years which have subconsciously influenced one another's attitude causing us to take a specific approach which may lead to certain negative characteristics in providers' ability to demonstrate excellent TCB? Perhaps the hobbyists' referring to provider's as (i quote verbatim from a recent thread) "whores" isn't the best way to pass a provider's screening?
If Screening wasnt such a pain in the ass to get through sometimes ( for both hobbyists & providers) do you think it would effect our motivation to request and respond? Could a simple change in mentality create a type of renaissance for the hobby if every registered member and provider would take a third point perspective and question the way in which we structure our approaches & strategies?
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Be creative....... but careful with wording due to the legalities of this topic.