Maxeen Monroe suggested poker during her open house, which raises an interesting point...
In SoCal, it is common for providers to host a poker night. Typically, there is a buy-in for chips, which are redeemed for prizes (typically, the winner(s) get BCD time with the hostess)... sometimes, when several ladies host, there are several prizes. It's all enhanced by free booze and the ladies providing intermittent entertainment (usually, stripping or running around half naked).
I guess the downside is that the guys don't win actual money (the money is paid to the lady), but they get free food/booze/eye candy and can "cash in" their chips - if they've won any - for girl time.
I'm surprised that some of the more enterprising ladies here haven't tried this.