Pregnancy And Being A Pro Domme... What are your thoughts?

Tylus_amore's Avatar
I know that some people love the fact of getting to Relish in a expectant mothers realm... But i was thinking what happens when a Provider gets married and starts a family... If she still chooses to be a pro domme during this time in her life.... is it tacky, weird or a turn on to see a Pregnant woman in the hobby as a provider.....
So in short is it fact or fiction that once a domme is pregnant she should put the brakes on her career?
Tylus amore--There will always be a demand for a pregnant provider and self righteous folks who will be condescending.

I figure a lady is pregnant for 9 months, she still needs to make money. Then she will need to take time off after baby is born and so she can heal. Well she still needs to pay bills and buy diapers, formula ectetra.

I don't see anything wrong with a lady who is pregnant working. Just be careful safety wise. Always screen especially if you are doing it for 2.
I think it could facilitate a whole unique array of role play possibilities!
Tylus_amore's Avatar
Okay good to know, I have been wondering about it seeing as how its looked down upon.... Sounds like a new kink when i actually do decide to have a little person.....
i worked while i was pregnant and i found a new circle of men that enjoyed it there is nothing wrong with working while u are expecting as long as your doctor says u can have u know what without putting u at risk for a preemie stay safe
#tylus, I would drink Your milkshake!!! (Sorry, I couldn't resist) ((but I really would))!
I am currently pregnant and working when my real life schedule allows. If someone doesn't feel comfortable with seeing me or my decision to continue to see clients, well that's their issue, not mine.

The clients that you will lose because of the pregnancy, you will make up with those who find it erotic or those that simply don't care. For sure, it is an excellent way to separate the men from the boys. With the extra hormones, I definitely lean towards the Sensual Domination aspect of my business vs. the FBSM! LOL

Additional safety is a concern, therefore I screen harder now. In addition to being hypersensitive to other energies, even through email. So if there is ONE iota of a red flag, the appointment request will be declined.

All in all, don't let anyone's opinion dictate how you want to live your life. If you feel comfortable being pregnant and a Domme, that's all that matters.
One time I called a provider that I had seen before but not for several months for a session. She showed up with a protruding bulge and announced look what you did to me. I sat there with my jaw open when she started laughing and said not really. We then proceeded to screw like rabbits. She was exceptionally horny and even after I came she would keep humping. She came like ten times in an hour. Her comment was that since she got pregnant she turned into a nympho. It was great.
The first provider I ever had that used a strap on became pregnant shortly after I started seeing her. She still did me with a strap on while pregnant. I loved it!
Bigh1955's Avatar
I wish more providers would continue working during pregnancy, so long as it's safe for them, of course. Like most things, I'm sure there are those who'll disagree, but I think there's something incredibly beautiful and exciting about a woman who is pregnant. I also believe a lot of women get extra horny when they're pregnant...which is never a bad thing in our little hobby world.

Yes, Yes, Yes