What to do if you realize you know the provider?

How do you handle if you open the door and realize you know her, or she knows you? The idea of this freaks me out lol.

Don't ask, don't tell! Lol

By all means, be proffessional about it. After all, what happens in this world stays in this world, PERIOD. Be safe and happy hunting. dj8

Ive seen a hobbyist at the grocery store and paid it no mind just kept going...we all have our private lives....

Business is business

If you are very uncomfortable, give her at least half the agreed fee and send her on her way.

Both parties have equal security issues and thus you are already "partners" in the hobby.

imho, you'd already made the decision to play before you opened the door, so sit with her a while, get comfy, then man up and go to town!

I agree CK1942........ If you are really freaked out give part of the donation and leave. But personally I probably would stay, talk and have fun!!!! I am just that horny....and remember "don't ask, don't tell" that works wonders in the hobby.

I have run across two providers in public restaurants in the last several years and I carry on as though we are strangers.....

Laugh like hell and proceed with a deep kiss. If the door opened and I realized we knew each other from private life I would just laugh and tell her how happy I was to see her. I look at women all of the time and imagine them as providers. There is one woman in particular that I have had the hots for.

Laugh like hell and proceed with a deep kiss. If the door opened and I realized we knew each other from private life I would just laugh and tell her how happy I was to see her. I look at women all of the time and imagine them as providers. There is one woman in particular that I have had the hots for. Originally Posted by tucson

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That happened to me in Dallas some years back. We went on with the meeting.

in all matters like this ... my penis makes the final decision ... I highly recommend it!

not only that but when you look down and ask him ... "I don't know ... what do you think?" in often defuses the tension of the situation.


A few specialty situations: (you weren't very specific BOB) if known person was a) your wife, b) wife's twin sister, c) step daughter, d) old girlfriend, e) your boss, f) your colleague, g) an underling, h) your cross dressing minister, i) ministers hot wife, j) minister's not hot wife, k) wives from the country club, l) children of friends or relations, m) any teachers of your wife, children, friends, n) ex best friends of your wife, o) people you have seen in photos with your wife but never actually met, p) your wife's GBF, q) any of YOUR ex wives, r) any of your wives ex husbands, s) daughters old boyfriends, t) son old girl friends, u) cheer leaders from high school/ college v) wives from your neighborhood, w) wives from your old neighborhood, x) someone she friended on Facebook, y) the girl your wife kissed in College, z) any pets or acquainted farm animals ... if it is one of these you can PM me for specifics on how to handle.

A provider told me once she had a guy come to see her that she knew in her private life. After he got over the surprise, he said, "Oh well, I always wanted to fuck you anyway." And it was on!

That would be great lol

I would proceed with the meeting. Who wants to incriminate themselves? Neither of you, of course. And if you have seen pictures of the provider, obviously you liked what you saw, and want to fuck her. My advice is to GET ON WITH IT!

A provider told me once she had a guy come to see her that she knew in her private life. After he got over the surprise, he said, "Oh well, I always wanted to fuck you anyway." And it was on! Originally Posted by pssymnchr2