Why do Denver hobbyists not like ECCIE?

I am new here to ECCIE. I am glad to be here, however, I don't think TOB is a bunch of jumble, but of course I am biased to TOB being that it IS my home board and it IS where I started out. With all due respect, I can see one thing that's MUCH better about TOBs review system (and let's face it, a board is only as good as it's review system). That thing would be that when a lady gets reviews, they all stay grouped together. From what I can see (and of course maybe I am wrong) when a lady gets reviews here, it is just mixed in with all of the other reviews and not directly linked the rest of her reviews. You can not EASILY see her past track record. That is inconvenient for the client and provider alike. Making it MUCH harder to research any particular lady, and from the ladies POV, making it much harder to keep track of all of her reviews. One thing that is better about this board is the separation of 411s. I like that idea and believe it helps to keep the clutter down in the main discussion area. All in all, each board has its pros and its cons. But in the long run, as chica chaser stated, it's best to not keep all of your eggs in one basket.

Also, getting NATIONAL attention is nice, but I believe that some of the value of a close net community (like TOB has) is lost on such a BIG board. TOB has a "Cheers" feel to it. Where everybody knows your name. When I come here (and granted I am fairly new with limited experience with this board) I feel like I am in the Mall of America and I might not see anybody here that I know.

These are just my perspectives. I am not bashing this board. Like I said I am very happy to be here and I look forward to exploring my options. Oh, and I added to my ad that I would like to receive reviews here also.
Glad your here Destiny <3

When someone goes to your page, your reviews should all be grouped together. If they're not, just send sweet Chica Chaser a little msg and he'll get them put together for you.
TOB is where I started too
While I was in NM, I joined ECCIE, not to long after that, SWC fell apart, and thats when I totally learned the lesson they are talking about, being all of your eggs in one basket.... It was a very sad lesson.

Love Mia
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That's one of the big things I personally like about Eccie. We are a national site with big national boards, it great to get a national perspective from all the different people we have on here. But will also maintain that small-town local feel with all the different cities/states forums. You get to decide where you want to play here. Obviously, the more local ladies and gents that participate here the stronger that sense of community becomes.

As far as reviews go Destiny, when a review is written anywhere on the site it will be manually assigned to that particular lady. That way no matter what local area a meeting might take place all of your reviews are tied back to your handle and are visible with one click to see everything.

Since it is a manual process, mistakes can and will be made, we know that. In my areas I pretty much do them all. For instance, right now there are 33 members with some variation of "Destiny" in their username here and it becomes very difficult to choose the right one sometimes. On more common names, there can be hundreds of variations when you take into account the different ways to spell them. It is very easy for me or any moderator to correct these mis-assignments...when we know about them.

Right now I am not aware of any Eccie reviews for you. If there are, please let me know and its an easy fix.

Thank you Mia, you are a sweetheart. The SWC situation was a big wake-up call to many people. Things change and boards can and do come and go. See escorts.com and nsahub.com for other examples. e.com is no longer and took a huge chunk of the east coast and midwest with it. nsahub is back now after a several week hiatus offline.
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Welcome to the board Destiny. For the hobbyist it is like a kid in the candy store. Sure there are plenty of hot ladies in Denver, but on this board they are from all over the nation. Sometimes when they find out how far away you are from them you will not get the time of day, but alot of them are real friendly just like yourself.Once again welcome.
Glad your here Destiny <3

When someone goes to your page, your reviews should all be grouped together. Originally Posted by Mia D'Amore
Thank you Mia! I'm glad to see you here also! It's nice to be here. I see what you're saying about the reviews being grouped together on a user profile. Thanks for pointing that out. It is a shame what happened with SWC, and even though I was never a member of that board in particular, I was still saddend to hear that news. I believe you have plenty of other reviews on other sites though, don't you Mia?

That's one of the big things I personally like about Eccie. We are a national site with big national boards, it great to get a national perspective from all the different people we have on here. But will also maintain that small-town local feel with all the different cities/states forums. Originally Posted by Chica Chaser
Yes, I see what you're saying. I almost got eaten alive when I posted on the national forum.And when I came running back to the Denver section with my tail between my legs (just kidding, I can't be scared off THAT easily...), there WAS a small-town local feel with many people in this forum that I recognize from my home forum. I do admit that national attention is nice though. I like this place and I look forward to participating here.

As far as reviews go Destiny, when a review is written anywhere on the site it will be manually assigned to that particular lady. That way no matter what local area a meeting might take place all of your reviews are tied back to your handle and are visible with one click to see everything.
Yes, I see what you're talking about and that is a great feature. I guess I was just so used to looking at all of the reviews as a whole, that I didn't even think about going to a user's profile to see if their reviews were there linked to their profile. Cool feature!


Right now I am not aware of any Eccie reviews for you. If there are, please let me know and its an easy fix.
It appears that my single review has been found, and linked to my profile already. Thank you! I look forward to getting a bunch more here. Like I already said, I have put a request on my advertisement to receive reviews on this site. However, I do have one question. When I refer somebody to my reviews (assuming that soon I will have more than just one) on this site, should I referred them to my profile instead of individual review links so that they can see the whole group of reviews instead of just a single one(s) I've linked to? And if that is the case? Will they have to create a profile to view my reviews?

Welcome to the board Destiny. For the hobbyist it is like a kid in the candy store. Sure there are plenty of hot ladies in Denver, but on this board they are from all over the nation. Sometimes when they find out how far away you are from them you will not get the time of day, but alot of them are real friendly just like yourself.Once again welcome. Originally Posted by geecue
Thank you geecue! It's nice to see a familiar handle buddy! I can understand what you're saying about this being like a kid in a candy store. There is so much variety, I bet it kind of makes you want to go on a road trip doesn't it?
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It appears that my single review has been found, and linked to my profile already. Thank you! I look forward to getting a bunch more here. Like I already said, I have put a request on my advertisement to receive reviews on this site. However, I do have one question. When I refer somebody to my reviews (assuming that soon I will have more than just one) on this site, should I referred them to my profile instead of individual review links so that they can see the whole group of reviews instead of just a single one(s) I've linked to? And if that is the case? Will they have to create a profile to view my reviews? Originally Posted by Naughty Destiny
Yes I found your earlier review and reassigned it over to your handle here.
When you refer someone, I would refer them to your profile http://eccie.net/member.php?u=98951 You will see there are different tabs on there, they can see your reviews, your showcase and bio info, all from one place. They will not have to create an account to see it. There will be certain parts of the reviews (the rest if the story, ROS) and the showcase (the rates and services box) they will not be able to see without getting Private Access (mens private areas) here.

Easy way to see what they would see is to just log off then navigate to your profile and click around. That's what the general public will see across the site, it is more limited and that's exactly how it is designed.
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ECCIE covers a lot of land for as young as it is, but it's members go back quite a ways. ASPD, etc. Unlike some other regional boards, ECCIE has sub-forums ready to grow. For the time being it covers most of the center of the United States. Not bad. Mexico to Canada. Originally Posted by Longermonger

I agree however Eccie is the main forum for the Southern and Eastern regions of the states as well as ALOT of The nation. It is a touring asps best friend!

Once ASPD and Escorts.com came down (oh how I miss it..lol) the drama/fake reviews/hadles rips offs ect ect came out heavy..And ECCIE came to the rescue..

Eccie is more trusted and reliable than the drama and "other" stuff that is welcome in the TOB community.. ECCIE tends to be more discreet and respectful here, the ladies actually have a chance to build themselves into a fabulous reputation and The MODS(Thank you! CHICA CHASER) are chosen because of their honesty. It is peaceful if you take a chance to look around..

Many providers do intro themselves to TOB when in town(natural respect to the local community) but other than that, it is not used for a touring ladies true benefit other than to get bashed by local "haters" both female and male..Any one can join TOB , post reviews and comment threads but ONLY the "group" there is taken seriously, And lets be honest y'all Some VIPS on TOB can be quite biased to some asps depending on who their personal ATF really is and what HER opinion is..

ECCIE you can not if you are a provider partake in any opinions/questions a hobbiest has, unless it is a co-ed thread/public forum ect. And quarrels and useless threads are put to rest here.

Eccie does have its faults and like us is no way near perfect but so far has been great to our community and as long as it does not get to the degree TOB/Back page is I think it will succeed greatly. SO what DENVER guys don't use it, It is NOT our communities problem they enjoy getting cash/dashed, ripped for time or services ect..We are not a drama filled site and THANK goodness NOT just any lady can join here, It keeps the hobbyist safe/informed and us too!

Think about it guys MOST aps(even backpage advertisers) knows of Eccie, There is a reason the entire TOB community is not here and we should be thankful there is a female screening process to join!
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I don't see many ladies even posting adds for the Colorado area. The seem to all be on BackPage. I like HX, which is a pay site, mainly on west coast, Nevada and some others across the US. It does have its drama tho. They do have have different clubs to join like, a mens only and a ladies only, where you can post safety issues that need to be brought up, such as robs ect. You can also post safety issues on the main boards too, where everyone can see.
Yeah once you are registered you just scroll on down. It's only "guests" that have to keep clicking the next button.
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Yeah once you are registered you just scroll on down. It's only "guests" that have to keep clicking the next button. Originally Posted by sophia rose

Nice to see you post here.
I guess I should give it a try posting an ad, however I am swamped enough as it is with these darn local guys Makes it so that I don't hardly advertise anywhere except P411 (which gets me a lot of national and international people). Maybe if I ever do get off my rear end and bother traveling, I'll give it a shot! Usually I just take vacations haha
I'm cool with participating in discussions though, and even went to chat (although that was a bit crazy) for the first time today.
LOL @Geecue I'm making an effort haha. Besides you know how it goes....where the ladies are the men will follow! Maybe the ladies should rally the troops a bit so to speak hehe.
More ads = more web traffic = more reviews = more discussions and so on and so on until there is a Colorado following. Simple equation I'm willing to give it a try. It's not too exciting talking to yourself in the local forums though, although there are other interesting forums here, especially Australia if I want to move back out there. Alright I'm done now-I have set a new record for myself posting here!
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IMHO I believe the ladies have to be the biggest promoters. I'm fairly new to hobbying but seems most ladies have some regulars. Really try to persuade them to review here as you will have more influence on them than some1 you r seeing the 1st time. If 1st timer is local entice him with a small discount on next visit if they post a review?
Guys need to stress the advantages of ECCIE to ladies - FREE, FREE, & FREE! I've met 1 lady prior to seeing reviews (I was new & learned DON'T DO THAT AGAIN).
Some ladies don't seem to like reviews, which I don't understand. (New thread subject?) IMO good reviews lead to:
1 - more business for the lady. 2 - a better informed client that is less likely to be disappointed (like I was) & therefore more good reviews for the lady which leads back to #1.
Just my $0.02 worth.

As a provider, I like Eccie and TOB. But I have asked some guys to review me here and they just don't. They always seem to just review me there. Not sure how to change that, as I am someone who really believes that I shouldn't ask for reviews. I prefer it to be the guy's idea. Some day.... LOL.. In the mean time, I still post in both places. Originally Posted by VelvetValentineco
Well that is the same story from all of the west pretty much. Certainly in my areas of AZ, NM, Vegas. We have grown participation in Las Vegas very well over the last year. My sales pitch to the ladies is one of not putting all their eggs in one basket with advertising and participation. See the ABQ meltdown this week with SWC. Just have to keep spreading the word that we are here, available and FREE for the ladies to join, post and advertise. Many other sites they have to pay to advertise and I don't think many realize that is not the case here. Originally Posted by Chica Chaser

YES I totally agree with Chicka Chaser about the eggs in a basket theory!!
I love it here> Less drama & lots of new thoughts and perspectives
I happen to be a CO native, but my sexxxiness started in Dallas and I'm gonna have to get back there sometime
I've been in chat twice, and I don't know what I'm doing yet lol

I put an ECCIE banner on my links page maybe that will bring some more this way?
xoxo Mia