A PROVIDERS WORST NIGHTMARE

Whats your idea of a providers worst nightmare? Just my opinion but I don't think it's a guy who refuses to pay, a guy who is not washed, a guy who insists on doing things that are not on the menu,or someone that keeps making bogus appointments.I think their worst nightmare is when a client forgets that it's a fantasy date and begins to get emotionally envolved . Some of these ladies have great personalities and looks to die for, but at the end of the day it's what it is...a fantasy. Just my opinion. ps..but I love it.

To us, the Hobbyist it is Playtime, Enjoyment, Fun, or should be .

To the provider it is a Business, no more No less !!

some of forget that and carry it too far.


an OLD Salt who use to be on here in Corpus Christy TX, had as a signature line.

" this is a hobby, enjoy it, or find a new hobby "

iggy

Repeating what I said in the thread on AlbanyBlonde that has since been deleted:

We hobby precisely to avoid involvement and attachment. Anyone ignoring this basic premise does so at his peril.

Worst nightmare for me would be getting caught up with LE or having a guy turn violent.

Worst nightmare for me would be getting caught up with LE or having a guy turn violent. Originally Posted by Sami

Yeah the worst nightmare would be getting arrested or a violent encounter. I can get over being stiffed, dealing with bad attitudes, but stinky people will get doused with the hose!!

We hobby precisely to avoid involvement and attachment. Originally Posted by jackfengshui

True for the married (or involved) guys. Not necessarily so for the single guys. Which isn't to say we single guys hobby looking for involvement and attachment, but we don't hobby to specifically avoid it. Which ultimately means that single guys may be less inclined to shy away from it should they think they've found it.

Anyone ignoring this basic premise does so at his peril.

Now that is true whether married or not.

I think that question was answered yesterday. For me at least, lol!

there are really a lot of whack jobs out there Autumn

On the flip side and speaking as a client, i think my worst nightmare would revolve around being outed.

I think that works for both parties.

From a safety perspective, providers expose themselves to great risk at times. Ultimately, Eccie showed care towards the provider in the case of a client that lost their marbles. I applaud Eccie for its actions.

Repeating what I said in the thread on AlbanyBlonde that has since been deleted:not sure if I agree or disagree with it being deleted.

We hobby precisely to avoid involvement and attachment.. Originally Posted by jackfengshui

True for the married (or involved) guys. Not necessarily so for the single guys. Which isn't to say we single guys hobby looking for involvement and attachment, but we don't hobby to specifically avoid it. Which ultimately means that single guys may be less inclined to shy away from it should they think they've found it.
true

Anyone ignoring this basic premise does so at his peril

Now that is true whether married or not. Originally Posted by Doove

errrr I could agree with if stated as:
Anyone ignoring this basic premise could be doing so at his/her own peril.

I see it as a two way street. As it takes two to tango. Dancing with each other does not always end with sex with each other. Any sex will be paid for one way or another by me. (me as in How I play it). She will not always get a errr donation. Both can set a limit or bail out at anytime. Neither are to flame the other to others, nor all out defend the other. I try not to WK. I have failed at that at times. And to tell the truth I have over promoted one and how I play.

If in this type a deal
If he (any he) feels like a ATM. bail out

there are times she should bail also. MMMMMM I would like to ask someone first.
But if he seems to be hanging on overly I would think is a hint she should bail out.

ahhh latter, I got to shower and go. maybe . most of the time nope.

I will nevet forget the time I was punched in the back of my head and almost robbed. I may be a bbw but I box and have extremely muscular legs, I'm not just a fluffy marshmallow I'm extremely strong. The Guy that punched me and tried to rob me got the tables turned on him,he did not expect it. I beat him with my high heel, kicked his knee out, sat on him, took his money and id, took face pics of him, punched him in each eye, pissed on him, and his cell phone, and kicked him out. If it wasn't a hotel that had outside access to each suite I would have done body shots instead of face. I will never forget that, it scared the hell out of me but since I have experienced it the thought isn't as scary anymore. I sent emails to the other girls in the area asking if they were robbed and 1 wrote back saying she got attacked from behind like me and her purse stolen from the closet and her laptop taken like he tried to take mine. I asked her to meet me in public and I gave her the $650 she said was in her purse and the name and address of the Guy from his ID. No other girls came forward about it so I kept the other $500 from his pocket. I wrote a really long post about it with his phone number, face pic, real name, height ... I was livid. I couldn't believe it happened to me. I was checking out the next morning but I was so hopped up on adrenaline that I packed and checked out and drove home that night.
I would say my biggest fears now are being attacked with a weapon or busted by LE. I am highly prepared for both to happen but I'm still scared shitless about it.

well I'm fresh from the shower. Wish me luck on . Hope she be in the mood. Was not yesterday. But if not, no problem. note not sayin which of 3 errrr or is that two now. me be thinkin its two now. just not sure. I will not say who, or who be bailing out from the other, nor why. see it easy, yet easier said than done by some.

I will nevet forget the time I was punched in the back of my head and almost robbed. I may be a bbw but I box and have extremely muscular legs, I'm not just a fluffy marshmallow I'm extremely strong. The Guy that punched me and tried to rob me got the tables turned on him,he did not expect it. I beat him with my high heel, kicked his knee out, sat on him, took his money and id, took face pics of him, punched him in each eye, pissed on him, and his cell phone, and kicked him out. If it wasn't a hotel that had outside access to each suite I would have done body shots instead of face. I will never forget that, it scared the hell out of me but since I have experienced it the thought isn't as scary anymore. I sent emails to the other girls in the area asking if they were robbed and 1 wrote back saying she got attacked from behind like me and her purse stolen from the closet and her laptop taken like he tried to take mine. I asked her to meet me in public and I gave her the $650 she said was in her purse and the name and address of the Guy from his ID. No other girls came forward about it so I kept the other $500 from his pocket. I wrote a really long post about it with his phone number, face pic, real name, height ... I was livid. I couldn't believe it happened to me. I was checking out the next morning but I was so hopped up on adrenaline that I packed and checked out and drove home that night. ... Originally Posted by Lexxxy

Odd, I find myself aroused.