The Day of...

So, here it is..the day of your big date and after making sure that all of the minor details are handled, now comes the hard part..the waiting game. Now you are just a mere few hours away from the date and exactly what is on your mind other than the obvious..? Do you feel like the typical high school student on prom night who is having to fight back the butterflies mixed with a sense of varying emotions tingling with the excitement and anticipation of better things to come? or are you cool, calm, and collected and totally in control of your emotions, feelings, and thoughts? I tend to lean alot more to the nervous with anticipation side than being totally relaxed. Please share your thoughts on this..inquiring minds would like to know.. em

... a kid on Christmas eve ...

The planning and anticipation of the date is part of the fun for me, ultimately culminating to the date itself...for me...I get nervous and anxious well before the date itself...don't think I have ever been calm and collected . Usually I will have to get a workout in to take my mind off the date or have a drink at the bar to take the edge off...

I agree with Charlie. The anticipation is the fun part, but if I feel I am getting too anxious I will schedule a trip to the gym as well, timing that after my workout shower I head straight to the appointment.

Otherwise I will play PS3 to take my mind off of it.

Is this question for the guys only?

Just MY .02...I REALLY anticipate my fun sessions! It's great fun to look forward to them! Especially when I am working around my therapeutic clients...

I'm working, giving a therapeutic massage, THINKING about my "fun" client that will be coming in later...it's GREAT! I just smile and smile!

Depends, if its the first date nervous and anxious. If it's the second date uncomfortable because I know what is to come and I'm clothed so trying to walk around with wood for the previous hour/2 before session.

I'm a romantic adventurer. As Chris Rock once astutely asserted, "the only thing better than good pussy is new pussy..."

Finding someone new can always be a quagmire. But a few ladies know how to put their would-be suitors at ease. Before Kelly TNT and I first met, we had the most hilarious conversation by phone. I felt as if I already knew her before I got there.

Once, I met a porn star with whom I exchanged erotic emails all the way up to our date. It took the edge off completely. I left the door to my hotel room unlocked for her. When she arrived, I was in a hot bubble bath with aromatherapy candles, chocolate covered strawberries, and champagne. We felt like old friends sneaking away versus "a session."

Alana Nicole is also a doll. When we first met...we had a great phone conversation. She guided me to her incall...and when I arrived...she opened the door and I beheld an incredible sight. We've been fast friends ever since.

Even though I have tried agencies, salons, studios, and the like; I always prefer an independent provider's intuition and sense of connection. You can't get that from a cathouse lineup. You can't get it from a scheduler. You can't get it from mama-san.

The ladies that have seen me more than once have been because they are just good people (period). From the first impression to the lasting impression, they know themselves and are just authentic. There is no pretentious BS.

The rest of the folks I see...I'm generally paranoid until someone sucks or £u¢ks the anxiety out of me.

Fawn and I met at an undisclosed event. I know that I could spend a day in her company without a single butterfly.

its anticipation for me although a provider I haven't met before adds to the anticipation