I used to be quite dominant bcd. Now, I find I love to switch with the right partner. I'm really getting partial to a little OTK, by a dominant male that will edge me and take over.
It's a nice change from always leading the session. Although, me being the seductress comes more natural to me. All the little things leading up to the big event- the devil in the details. It seems people are a little afraid to let go and are quite content with the sweet gfe lately. I guess stripping had something to do with my desire to seduce. I don't know, but under my other handle, I used to think of myself kind of like a specialist who got the really interesting cases! And I did usually always get the interesting dates!!
Our biggest sex organ is our brain. Why don't more people use it in p4p?
What do you think causes these shifts in DS? Why don't more people act out their submissive desires or Dominant roles in the hobby?
We are here to explore sexuality and all the fun it has to offer rigt? I mean if you can't tell a provider your dark desires, who can you tell?
Maybe I need to advertise in the BDSM section, because I am just not getting the type of insane role play or fetish requests I used to under my other handle. Those are the things that would bring me the most happiness.... Creating masterpieces with hobbyist who knew what they wanted and what I could give. Playing on a whole other level. It's a team effort to create those masterpieces, but I digress.
Granted, my pix make me look like this sweet gfe, but they don't really reflect my dynamic personality as a courtesan. Again, I digress.
I find human sexuality so interesting. How we evolve, our tastes, prejudices, level of comfort in our own skin. It's interesting to reflect on the time I started escorting to where I am now in regard to attitude and outlook on sex and the hobby.