Thoughts on Taking Provider on Vacation to Adult Resort

In the past, I have taken 3 providers to adult only resorts in Mexico [long weekend situation]. Two of those providers were great travel companions and we did multiple trips. One provider was normal at home but became bad shit crazy once alcohol was added. The trips were to lifestyle friendly resorts [Temptations [fka Bluebay Getaway] which is topless encouraging, and Desire resorts which are nude optional and couples only. These providers liked the naughty nature [one liked Temptation, one liked Desire].

The set-up was that I paid for the vacation [first class flights, resort, other expenses] and they "played" girlfriend for the trip without fees. In discussing this concept on another board on this website, some providers/players found the concept unusual/not workable while other providers/players found the concept very workable.

Thought that I would inquire to a bigger audience regarding thoughts on this topic. I am in the process of relocating for work and am wondering if my past experience is unusual and due to the nature of "play" in my current locale and should not be expected in other cities.

Thanks for your thoughts. Cheers.

....Most girls would expect compensation. Buying time in bulk does normally result in a significant discount but not to the extent where you get a free weekend from a girl for the cost of buying her food and drink and using the airline miles you racked up.

You have to remember that the entire time she's with you she has to be "on". Seeing a professional means that she tries to bring the BEST of herself to the table ever single moment she's with you. That can get pretty draining after awhile.

In the past, I have taken 3 providers to adult only resorts in Mexico [long weekend situation]. Two of those providers were great travel companions and we did multiple trips. One provider was normal at home but became bad shit crazy once alcohol was added. The trips were to lifestyle friendly resorts [Temptations [fka Bluebay Getaway] which is topless encouraging, and Desire resorts which are nude optional and couples only. These providers liked the naughty nature [one liked Temptation, one liked Desire].

The set-up was that I paid for the vacation [first class flights, resort, other expenses] and they "played" girlfriend for the trip without fees. In discussing this concept on another board on this website, some providers/players found the concept unusual/not workable while other providers/players found the concept very workable.

Thought that I would inquire to a bigger audience regarding thoughts on this topic. I am in the process of relocating for work and am wondering if my past experience is unusual and due to the nature of "play" in my current locale and should not be expected in other cities.

Thanks for your thoughts. Cheers. Originally Posted by FunAndHappy

Paying for vacation and escort time

I would go on vacation and see prostitutes in that area, much cheaper, more fun. Taking a prostitute with you is only for bragging rights. Look at this hot woman on my arm! Abd you get to play a big shot and lie about your true financial position, fun, fun! Sex is not as often as one might think, she is not being paid so not obligated to do much sexually with you. If bragging rights is your goal and seems it is then have a blast. More beautiful ladies will insist on payment. The prostitutes without kids, responsibility may do it for fun alone but those are usually older women in upper 40s and up. Plenty of non working ladies would do this as well.

I would go on vacation and see prostitutes in that area, much cheaper, more fun. Taking a prostitute with you is only for bragging rights. Look at this hot woman on my arm! Abd you get to play a big shot and lie about your true financial position, fun, fun! Sex is not as often as one might think, she is not being paid so not obligated to do much sexually with you. If bragging rights is your goal and seems it is then have a blast. More beautiful ladies will insist on payment. The prostitutes without kids, responsibility may do it for fun alone but those are usually older women in upper 40s and up. Plenty of non working ladies would do this as well. Originally Posted by Boudin3112

No matter what still paying for it.NO FREE LUNCH in life.

....Most girls would expect compensation. Buying time in bulk does normally result in a significant discount but not to the extent where you get a free weekend from a girl for the cost of buying her food and drink and using the airline miles you racked up.

You have to remember that the entire time she's with you she has to be "on". Seeing a professional means that she tries to bring the BEST of herself to the table ever single moment she's with you. That can get pretty draining after awhile. Originally Posted by SA Angel

Thanks for your thoughts.

Paying for vacation and escort time Originally Posted by Fancylady

Thanks for your thoughts.

I would go on vacation and see prostitutes in that area, much cheaper, more fun. Taking a prostitute with you is only for bragging rights. Look at this hot woman on my arm! Abd you get to play a big shot and lie about your true financial position, fun, fun! Sex is not as often as one might think, she is not being paid so not obligated to do much sexually with you. If bragging rights is your goal and seems it is then have a blast. More beautiful ladies will insist on payment. The prostitutes without kids, responsibility may do it for fun alone but those are usually older women in upper 40s and up. Plenty of non working ladies would do this as well. Originally Posted by Boudin3112

Wow......never met me yet you know my motives, financial position, etc. That must be a very nice crystal ball. Or not.

I have developed friendships with providers and often do drinks, go to concerts, etc. on a "non-business" basis. Trips were simply an offshoot of that sidebar. As far as the age and looks, one was in her late 20s and the other in her mid 30s. One had children and one did not. Both were attractive outside and inside......in fact, really super people on all levels.

Having a "no romantic relationship expectations travel companion" works for me. Tinder without the iPhone.

I have went on extended trips with several of my clients and have not gotten paid for it. It all depends on the provider. I honestly do it because I like to travel and it honestly gives me a sense of "Normal" outside of this business. If you and the provider have chemistry and you enjoy spending time with one another without compensation being involved, why not?

Wow......never met me yet you know my motives, financial position, etc. That must be a very nice crystal ball. Or not.

I have developed friendships with providers and often do drinks, go to concerts, etc. on a "non-business" basis. Trips were simply an offshoot of that sidebar. As far as the age and looks, one was in her late 20s and the other in her mid 30s. One had children and one did not. Both were attractive outside and inside......in fact, really super people on all levels.

Having a "no romantic relationship expectations travel companion" works for me. Tinder without the iPhone. Originally Posted by FunAndHappy

I have done what you are talking about a few times. Always, as you describe, with a lady I already know well enough that we have shared some OTC social time.

I have always explained what I had in mind and where/what the vacation would be, and then asked them would they be interested and what their rate would be.

Most quoted me a very discounted rate (typically on the order of 2x their overnight rate for the week), but several for just the cost of the trip. Went on a cruise to Alaska for the trip cost only.

It is strictly a personal decision based upon her situation, your relation/chemistry, and how apealing the trip is to her.

It could be good or bad. But if you decide to try it and it blows up worse then this one:

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=393691&highlight=

Be sure to tell us about it

Some ladies may be in this for the experience of men taking them on vacation, and you should only expect her to behave as if she is on vacation. If you expect her to work, then it is not a vacation. Especially at a lifestyle resort where a man can not get in without a woman. Once you turn it into a barter situation despite the nice or fun atmosphere, she is not really on vacation. She is providing you the service of being your girlfriend somewhere other than her normal place of business.

If venue is some kind of perk and she'll provide for free in order to do it there, then you managed to do something most can not do. She loses money by being gone with a stranger or someone who doesn't genuinely care for her like a rw boyfriend does, even if the venue you provide is the most upscale experience she may have in this biz. If you want the GFE in an exotic location with a particular woman, you should pay her for her time on the clock, and her expenses for the trip. Enjoy each others company off the clock as is her desire to do so or not. I am sure she will negotiate a fair rate, but a rate should be expected.

Excellent post. Needs to be a stickie...and stuck right onto the foreheads of every young stud who wanders by thinking that these ladies get all giddy inside about riding on the 'big aeroplane' with them. There's only one way these things work on a consistent basis...pay them for their time just as you would if you were home. Give them private time just as you would if you were home. And the expenses? OF COURSE you pay those. They lady doesn't see those as compensation.

My, it does appear I was ranting...

Some ladies may be in this for the experience of men taking them on vacation, and you should only expect her to behave as if she is on vacation. If you expect her to work, then it is not a vacation. Especially at a lifestyle resort where a man can not get in without a woman. Once you turn it into a barter situation despite the nice or fun atmosphere, she is not really on vacation. She is providing you the service of being your girlfriend somewhere other than her normal place of business.

If venue is some kind of perk and she'll provide for free in order to do it there, then you managed to do something most can not do. She loses money by being gone with a stranger or someone who doesn't genuinely care for her like a rw boyfriend does, even if the venue you provide is the most upscale experience she may have in this biz. If you want the GFE in an exotic location with a particular woman, you should pay her for her time on the clock, and her expenses for the trip. Enjoy each others company off the clock as is her desire to do so or not. I am sure she will negotiate a fair rate, but a rate should be expected. Originally Posted by MaxiMilyen