Like if you have a SO, then providing just isn't something that will work?! Apparently, due to having one, there have been 2 "would-have been" clients cancel in one day. Saying "I do not want drama", "I heard yelling from your room". Not only do they loose their balls and become a pussy and walk away. They also decide to be even more like a woman and gossip about it on eccie.
WHOA BRO!! HOW THE FUUCK ARE YOU GOING TO TALK ON ONE HAVING A SO...WHEN YOU (MORE THAN LIKELY) ARE MARRIED??!! HAH!
So here, let me let you and everyone else know, YES I DO HAVE SO. And no, he is not my pimp, my manager or anything other than my SO. If you really only knew the truth...smh. I cant help the fact that every now and then jealousy is in the air && the "motherly-ness" is forced to come out to get my stubborn lil man to listen.
So if you boys could knock it off with the gossip of the bullshit, you know, like I felt uncomfortable.. I'm not one of them "pimp in the shower" "Stole my cell phone & wallet" hoes. Im a working hoe, an independent WITH a SO. My bad he may check on me, or care enough to knock on door, or gets upset that we have to leave each others side.
Originally Posted by Maddalyn Haze
I don't think having an SO is the problem, having him THERE is. Oh course no one wants drama but if he is showing up at you place of business during a session the potential for drama exist. You stated the key words that brew drama "jealousy in the air" "stubborn man" just to name a few. Why would client put themselves in that position especially if they are going to your incall and hear "yelling from your room"
Put yourself in the clients shoes. If you were going on an outcall and hear an argument going on would you still knock on the door?
Even if the issue of getting robbed isn't on the table, I think the issue of comfort is. I couldn't enjoy my session knowing there is the potential of your jealous, stubborn SO my interrupt because he's upset that I'm hitting spots he can't find.
Originally Posted by txboi817
To go along with what txboi817 is saying about comfort level, since your SO knows you are a ho, then he also knows when you make appointments to see johns. There is no problem if he is around for your safety, but have him stay out of the limelight, aka, he needs to be out and unseen no later than 30 minutes before your appointment is due to show and not seen before your appointment leaves out of the parking lot.
If he misses you that much that he gets upset he has to leave your side for a whole hour, does he work for 8 hours at a real job? Does he call you every 5 minutes like a lost puppy? Does he even have a job or are both of you living solely on what you bring in spreading your legs for strangers? if so, you probably are working for his dinner and room for the night, so he needs to back off. If you are the single source of income or even if you do it for extra money, he is effecting your business by his presence, and you bitching about others not being happy or comfortable with it is worse, especially on a whore review/intel board, Some of the guys that hobby may be married, but the difference is, you are getting paid to not be, at least for the time the hobbyist is with you and if you do not understand that, maybe this business is not for you.