Providers weight, age, stats ???'s

am-a-pleaser's Avatar
As a hobbiest, I can search providers showcases base on various stat's.

20 ladies show up as 70 lbs. 70 lbs? Really? I can understand misstating by a couple of lbs (weight varies), a couple of years, even a couple of inches, cup size, etc. For example, a lady shows as 18, yet her reviews show her as 40 something. Huh?

When I do a search of showcases, I find I'm having to do much more research to find the "truth". It also leaves out potential ladies I might otherwise consider.

I know this only applies to a tiny number of ladies. Please give me some insight why the profile questions either are not answered, or answered so incorrectly?
I'll try my best to answer this question from my perspective. Forget the stated age of 18 and weight of 70 pounds for a moment. Many ladies will lie about their age and weight. Let's say I am 40 years old. If the other forty-somethings say that they are 32-ish, it doesn't really help me to be honest, does it? The same applies with weight. Many women will knock a few pounds off of their real weight. So, if a lady's real weight is posted, it makes her seem larger than she actually is.

When I worked at an agency, I was told to describe myself as about fifteen pounds lighter than I am. Now, I have been about ten pounds lighter than I am right now, and it was disgusting. I said, "But I'm thin now, so why do I need to lie?" The woman I worked for told me that if I said my real weight, the guys would think I was bigger than I was.

I think that this is one of the reasons that women will not post their real age and weight. Another is privacy. When they claim to be 18 and 70 pounds, I think what they're really saying is, "I'm not going to tell you!"

So which is better, knocking a few pounds and years off or giving ridiculous answers? I don't really have a clear opinion on this.
I've noticed the same few that are 70 lbs.

Since I'm a guy and don't have access to the showcase setup, I'm guessing that there is a dropdown list on that entry, and 70 is the lowest on the list. By listing 70, it is tantamount to not answering that item.

My .02
My showcase is right!
chipper's Avatar
18 yrs and 70 Lbs are the default settings. When I see those I PM the Lady through her showcase and let her know. You could help her and me by doing the same.

Chipper
On a local board the guys were going wild about a new lady 5’8” 36D-25-36 and 110 pounds. Maybe if her implants were filled with helium!
am-a-pleaser's Avatar
Chipper, I assumed that to be the case. Hopefully this thread (and other similar threads) will have the ladies review their info and accurately revise it.

Ladies, a lot of us look for different things. "One size" does not fit all. Some prefer extra cushion. Some prefer those more mature. Some prefer young spinners. imo, we enjoy a variety.

Keeping the showcase current helps when we're looking.

China and Tiff, each of you appeal to me. Maybe I'm in the minority of hobbiests.
I say vote with your wallet. If a lady mis-states her age or weight to the degree that you get hot under the collar about it, turn around and walk away. You are not required to see liars.
Chipper, I assumed that to be the case. Hopefully this thread (and other similar threads) will have the ladies review their info and accurately revise it.

China and Tiff, each of you appeal to me. Maybe I'm in the minority of hobbiests. Originally Posted by am-a-pleaser
+1, especially for China & Tiff. Just never been in their neighborhoods...
am-a-pleaser's Avatar
I wonder if the defaults were 45 yo and 250 lbs if the few ladies who seem to skip that part might pay attention. Just asking?
Doove's Avatar
  • Doove
  • 05-02-2010, 05:13 PM
At the risk of stating the obvious, I think this is where the importance of a few accurate pictures comes in, even if they only involve body shots. If accurate photos are involved, then age and weight truly do become just a couple numbers.

China would be a perfect example. With her photos, it's entirely irrelevant whether she's 115 or 135. Admittedly, age may not be so clear cut, but that's dependent on what your concern is relative to someone's age. If you're specifically looking for young, or looking for mature, age is still important regardless of looks. But if your concern regarding her age centers more around a youthful appearance or lack thereof, a picture again renders her true age irrelevant.
DallasRain's Avatar
my showcase is right on target!!!

I am a member of a swingers site and I am alot of times asking "WTF"....women will list thier ages and weights{and I know alot of them are lying...sometimes by 10 years and 50 lbs}!!!!
pyramider's Avatar
Age is only in the mind? If she acts young, then of course she is young?
Age is only in the mind? If she acts young, then of course she is young? Originally Posted by pyramider
Yes, that's the way it works. That way I can keep fudging on my age.
Yes, that's the way it works. That way I can keep fudging on my age. Originally Posted by Ansley

Ansley, I am starting to think that you may have been home sick the day they taught us how to lie about our age in the escorting 101 class.You are suppose to knock a few years off of your actual age not add them on.
In other words...You look way too young.