A question for providers...

First...you can call it a threAD if you wish but why ask a question if it didn't have at least some self-serving component of it...

I contemplated putting this in an ISO at first but it is more of a question that I would like the providers opinions on.

If a hobbyist wanted to schedule a "hobby date" for lack of better words how would that work as far as a rate or OTC time?

Example...lets just say there was a hobbyist that wanted to go on a dinner date or out for cocktails prior to the session time. The evening would go something like this..

Provider could meet hobbyist at set restaurant/sushi bar have a drink or two...sushi/dinner conversation laugh at hobbyists dumb jokes with flirting..kissing...and the build up of "you know what's going to happen later"..then head back to either incall or hotel room for some fun....and IOP...maybe a shower together first would be nice. Think dimly lit room with candles, mirrors and music.....call it a 4 hour outing/date...

I've never had this type of meeting before with a provider and its ideal to me...I know time is money - I get it. But how as a provider would you determine the rate for this type of evening? As a man, I love the sexual part but the build and spending some time together prior (for me) really makes things feel so much more passionate when the time comes....

But how as a provider would you determine the rate for this type of evening? Originally Posted by SNL9933

I don't know.

Maybe the hobbyist asks about how much a dinner date would cost?

Good question!

SNL,
I really enjoy the way you express yourself,...

How old are you?

Your statement above, has me befuddled .

You ever date anyone?


Or, are you strictly P4p?

If the above is true.... Party on Garth.

Thanks...BSB...you're right. I had a thought and went with it ...thanks for stating the obvious.

Oh come on BSB, if you were not busy on a given day I ask you out to lunch, what would you say? What would be a reasonable rate for your time? I have been out with some providers just for lunch and nothing else at that time. Expenses paid for lunch, but did get together at another time. Its all good if it happened all in the same day. So lunch a lunch or dinner date, plus session. 2 or 3 hours of the ladies time, just ask.

Why do you want to date me? I'm straight buddy.....

But since you asked...I'm in my early 40's and have dated a ton in RW over the years. I stopped dating civilians by choice about 2 years ago when I began Hobbying as it is just much easier to have P4P. Never had a problem meeting/dating civilians just grew intolerant of the ancillary drama that went along with it. However, I still find the "dating" or illusion of "dating" to be an art of seduction which is the only part I miss in civilian dating.

You see, this happens when someone is more cerebral than the a-typical male who will have sex with almost any girl who can fog a mirror...and the scenario of guy comes in says "hello" drops pants and only cares about sticking himself in the hole in front of him...That can be fun at times...having pure & raw unadulterated sex...nothing said and just straight to it....but not every time. Know what I mean?

So if I ask a question that is directed towards providers how is it, that a male hobbyist such as yourself is interested in what another hobbyists is asking?

If it were I, I wouldn't give it two seconds of thought..and just figure the hobbyist is more interested in the social aspect of hobbying rather than just pure "fucking" for lack of better terms.

SNL,
I really enjoy the way you express yourself,...

How old are you?

Your statement above, has me befuddled .

You ever date anyone?


Or, are you strictly P4p?

If the above is true.... Party on Garth. Originally Posted by lookn4boobies

Oh come on BSB, if you were not busy on a given day I ask you out to lunch, what would you say? What would be a reasonable rate for your time? I have been out with some providers just for lunch and nothing else at that time. Expenses paid for lunch, but did get together at another time. Its all good if it happened all in the same day. So lunch a lunch or dinner date, plus session. 2 or 3 hours of the ladies time, just ask. Originally Posted by BigDBone

I can give you a more personalized answer in a PM.

I just LOVE dinner dates!

Some things to consider~~
Best scenario is when it's an outcall and the hotel has a great restaurant. This way I can go to the client's room to leave my bag (candles, ipad with music, condoms, lingerie, massage oil) and we can go down to dinner together.

(you know, like a REAL COUPLE )

No separate cars getting to a restaurant/separate cars riding back to the hotel or my incall.

No other transportation issues like he comes to my incall to pick me up and then we ride together to a restaurant and back. Or me going to his hotel and then we ride in my car together or take a taxi. All just not ideal scenarios.

Then meeting someone new is always weird in public. "Are you Bob?" "Are you Rose?" ... or we're making tentative eye contact and just not sure if the other one is the one we're meeting.

Can't beat someone giving me his room number and me knocking on the door LOL! So we know whom we're with right from the start.

Thanks for the answer.

Party on Garth !

Some of your posts come off as a wayward 12 year old. I was just asking.

I absolutely love evenings like those. My favorite is staying in and cooking an elaborate meal together while sipping on wine..the rest naturally unfolds.

Thanks for the answer.

Party on Garth !

Some of your posts come off as a wayward 12 year old. I was just asking. Originally Posted by lookn4boobies

I take that as an insult especially as I have never done anything directly to you as a hobbyist. But opinions are just that and I will move on. Happy Hobbying.

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I just LOVE dinner dates!

Some things to consider~~
Best scenario is when it's an outcall and the hotel has a great restaurant. This way I can go to the client's room to leave my bag (candles, ipad with music, condoms, lingerie, massage oil) and we can go down to dinner together.

(you know, like a REAL COUPLE )

No separate cars getting to a restaurant/separate cars riding back to the hotel or my incall.

No other transportation issues like he comes to my incall to pick me up and then we ride together to a restaurant and back. Or me going to his hotel and then we ride in my car together or take a taxi. All just not ideal scenarios.

Then meeting someone new is always weird in public. "Are you Bob?" "Are you Rose?" ... or we're making tentative eye contact and just not sure if the other one is the one we're meeting.

Can't beat someone giving me his room number and me knocking on the door LOL! So we know whom we're with right from the start. Originally Posted by HoneyRose

That's a great suggestion about the hotel having a great restaurant attached...reminds me Vegas. Thank you..

I absolutely love evenings like those. My favorite is staying in and cooking an elaborate meal together while sipping on wine..the rest naturally unfolds. Originally Posted by JamieLove

..Now THAT's hot!...

I see this type of date listed all the time on here and p411.

I love Dinner Dates!! And I agree with Honey Rose! I think most providers including myself offer a package deal so to speak that involves a dinner date.

Happy Hunting

and SNL though we have not met I do not think you come off a wayward 12 year old