a serious bbfs quesiton...really...

this question is for the provider that is also in a relationship, or the hobbiest that is in a relationship with a provider....do you BBFS ur SO?

feel free to answer what you THINK you would do in that situation.

i am not stating a point of view here...only asking from what i have seen in posts here.

statements like "omg, you are crazy to go BB with a provider'' and we can figure out what that is implying.

i ask because of a situation i had several months back...i dated a girl, i knew was some type of provider, took her word for hit that she was not a FS provider, only to find out moments ago, she is very much a FS provider now...and she over charges...im just sayin. lol...what a review that would be

Going bareback with someone to whom one is married (or at least deeply committed) is a far cry from doing it with a client. Without that level of trust there is no relationship.

Going bareback with someone to whom one is married (or at least deeply committed) is a far cry from doing it with a client. Without that level of trust there is no relationship. Originally Posted by AngelOK

Yes, i understand that bb with a client/provider is much different than bb with a so... but that is not really what i asked. i asked the question based off a few comments i saw. the comment was somthing like 'its crazy or 'dangerous' to go BB with a provider' i am not dissagreeing, but it sounds as if they are saying that a provider is more likely to be 'dirty', then a civie. by shear numbers, maybe this is true, maybe not...given the number of civies that have no problem with it. I have also seen a provider say she does not offer BBBJ for the 'safety' of herself AND the client.

ONCE AGAIN, i am not offering up an opinion... i understand what it means to be married or in a commited relationship...i am only asking a question, in which you sort of answered. so thank you.

i was not asking the difference between bb with a so and bb with a client/provider. i was not asking if bb is ok. i think my question was very clear.

I was asking, becuase i began to wonder, if i ever WAS in a relationship with this provider, or any other, would i be able to go bb and not be worreied my whole life. yes, that is a personal question that only i can answer...but it made me wonder how others in the situation do it

I think you should assume that any provider does BB with their SO. And it is the rare provider, I think, that doesn't go through several SOs in the space of a few years. So, it's like you're bedding a lady that occasionally gives BBFS.

As far as developing a "relationship" with an escort, I think that's pretty far fetched. Not outside the realm of possibility, but far fetched.

Unless we get married I will not BBfs with him.

it is the rare provider, I think, that doesn't go through several SOs in the space of a few years...As far as developing a "relationship" with an escort, I think that's pretty far fetched. Not outside the realm of possibility, but far fetched. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Charles, you do realize you just contradicted yourself, right? How can it be farfetched and yet happen with every girl several times in her career?

Unless we get married I will not BBfs with him. Originally Posted by anita

awww... like saving yourself for marriage

I think you should assume that any provider does BB with their SO. And it is the rare provider, I think, that doesn't go through several SOs in the space of a few years. So, it's like you're bedding a lady that occasionally gives BBFS.

As far as developing a "relationship" with an escort, I think that's pretty far fetched. Not outside the realm of possibility, but far fetched. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

i dont think its all that far fetched. if she didnt have a list of other things about her i didnt like i might have thought about the idea

Every girl I screw is bareback, and no I do not pull out.

I think you should assume that any provider does BB with their SO. And it is the rare provider, I think, that doesn't go through several SOs in the space of a few years. So, it's like you're bedding a lady that occasionally gives BBFS.

As far as developing a "relationship" with an escort, I think that's pretty far fetched. Not outside the realm of possibility, but far fetched. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Charles, you do realize you just contradicted yourself, right? How can it be farfetched and yet happen with every girl several times in her career? Originally Posted by AngelOK

No, I did not contradict myself. What I meant was that I think it is rare for a hobbyist to develop a SO/marital relationship with an escort. However, I think most escorts do have SOs that they have developed from relationships outside the demimonde.

pretty interesting!
i think bb in my private world is just as risque in this world.
i say no thank you to both!
a.i.d.s & k.i.d.s are both 2 things you cant get rid of!
ewwww.....

I totally agree with msprittikitti...I would if in a relationship outside this hobby.. def use cover with my SO ......Who's to say my So wasn't out dealing with providers or non providers..Either way..I'd cover that badboy up!!!

why would anyone want to go bb anyways? +2 for msprittikitti

Every girl I screw is bareback, and no I do not pull out. Originally Posted by Humpty Dumpty

i know. congrats

i wonder if his avatar means no to condoms, or no-im not magnum size...
hmmmmm....