is it hard to concentrate of bbbj before fs

i do not hobby much, maybe 7-10 times a year.when i do its generally with someone who ive read reviews of and pretty sure will click with. i always book 1 hour sessions and generally am able to msog but heres my dilemma. while i love and appreciate a good blowjob im so nervous about comming during oral and runnning the risk of not being able to do fs or greek that i sometimes dont enjoy the bj like i should. as i generally prebook days in advance i generally jerk off thinking about the girl 2-3 times a day before our meeting then once the morning of as well as taking viagra so a second roungd is likely but even the small chance of not being able to have intercourse takes away from enjoyment of bbbj. any guys have similar thoughts or ideas. any providers any suggestions.

I've always been one, not only to ask, but let a Lady know what my likes and dislikes are. She, in turn, will let me know as well. A great Provider will not only remember, but take everything into consideration, and there are many MANY wonderful Providers here.

Nerves play a lot into it and I refer to it as the "16 year old, backseat, jitters." Relax, have fun...

Check out male multiple orgasm. It involves super-strengthening the PC muscle and one other. In essence, they can be strengthened sufficiently to separate orgasm from ejaculation. It is ejaculation rather than orgasm that triggers the chemicals that open up the veins and allow erection to subside.

That method works pretty danged well. Just do a search on the Internet for something like "male multiple orgasm" and I'm sure you'll find some data.You'll be able to enjoy all the BJs you want without fear of ejaculation.

Of course, nothing is foolproof. Some ladies do enough "sensory overload" through stimulation of multiple centers that maintaining sufficient presence of mind to pull that off is quite impossible. But, overall, it works well.

I always let the lady know I'm a one-popper, even with V. I tell her I want to cum during FS, so if I tap her on the head, shoulder, during BBBJ, she should stop.

Ladies are soooo accommodating.

Lol--charles has a good idea!

With me just be honest and you will get what ya want!

Communicate, communicate....and relax,petiteassman. . I think you are over analyzing and overthinking what should be a pleasurable romp in the sack. Communicate with your chosen provider, mix things up a little, few minutes of bj, then to mish, or daty then back to bj, don't think you have to go from point A to point C in a certain time frame.
Let the lady know what is most pleasurable for you and take the time to ask her the same questions; a wonderful time will be enjoyed by the both of you........

man, I always worry about that... But I can usually bring it back for 2nd pop so I'm good in that department..

Only problem is I usually cum alot faster from bbbbj than FS, mainly bc DT isnt available in my personal life while other FS activities are.... So if a provder can DT and is good with their hands, I usually cum in 1-2 MINUTES.. Its actually kind of embarrasing.. but I can last a much longer time with FS... Can anyone explain that?

I usually cum in 1-2 MINUTES.. Originally Posted by TheAlphaMale

1-2 Minutes!!!!! I'm lucky to go seconds . Thank your lucky stars...

As a newbie that's what I'm afraid of going off to fast. I got my first provider appointment set for tomorrow. It's been a while sense I've seen any sort of action and a good old bbbj might just make me explode. It's gonna take a lot of will power to make it to fs.

I have a similar issue. I'm so excited that my first shot is when she first touches me, so usually round 1 is some sort of HJ or BBBJ (if we can get that far). Now unlike some of our older gentleman, round 2 is ready in about 5 min. My problem is that by then if we aren't at FS, round 3 may not happen. I've gotten to the point where intercourse doesn't provide enough of a sensation to get me off (on shots 3+) and only oral can make me pop past my second cup of tea.

agreed C-palm.. I always thought that its FS that makes you cum faster... but I can last about 30 mins of FS but maybe only 5 at most on BBBJ.. any sexperts know why?

I don't think you are over analyzing it as someone else may have suggested.

I do think you should relax & enjoy the moment, whatever activity that moment should include.

I do think (assuming you can physically handle it or want to handle it) this issue reinforces the need to makes sure you find a MSOG or "an hour means a full hour" kinda gal.

There is nothing better than a nice BBBJ nursing you back to health after a quick first round....

IF BCD is the situation...
Once I am situated well and get going pretty good useing my mouth and hands together, I will pouse and look up into their eyes, and ask 'can you cum more then once?' If a 'Yes!' is the answer, it gives me the green light to get into it as much as i want to and enjoy it...if he hesitates, says maybe, or a no, then I say 'OK' and go back at it a bit slower and less gong ho. I get him aroused good, but thats it...then we move on to FS...

If she doesn't ask, and you are already half way through the wilderness, just gently push her back, change positions, or offer the information. There shouldnt be any issues, there are actually a great deal of men who can only go once.

If she doesn't ask, and you are already half way through the wilderness, just gently push her back, change positions, or offer the information. Originally Posted by Tiffany Cums

I usually just say "come up here and let's fuck".

This is an issue for me too, if MSOG is not on the menu. I stay away.
The bj is usually the first pop, then I have more control of the second one, and enen more if we have more time.
Always looking for the full hour, not one pop deal