I have been thinking about the issues with the "stings" that have happenned lately and have come up with an idea...
What I thought of is to treat it like any other business, simply meet the lady for a nice " business " lunch or dinner... Be a real gentleman and buy her a nice meal and conduct a " business meeting"( perfectly LEGAL ) ... Then what ever happens afterwards is simply between concenting adults, nothing more!
And I would bet that most of the ladies would like this idea...