So what you're proposing is a fantasy that all men feel the same way as a woman that is married to a man that has stopped trying be the man she lusted for when she said "yes"......
Ok....I would take out the trash, pick up my socks, rinse my dishes, leave the seat up for him, NEVER leave stubble hair on the sink for him to clean, stop watching CNN long enough to listen to him bitch about his day, and say what I mean and mean what I say.
In short....I would do what I could to make him want to make me happy. Even it was something I didn't want to do.
Can y'all tell I'm an ex wife? LoL
Edit.....and P.S. I've also got my "drank" on so I am speaking my mind unfiltered