Just curious to know how much success you have with contacting the next providers you would like to see.....it seems like i have to contact 7 different providers to get through a door and see one of them.
The area I live in is smaller in population so there is no scene here, my closest action is 2 to 5 hours away going one way, but if I’m going to be in the scene it’s either move or travel. Move is not really an option.
Some providers I have met several times, so it’s not totally a hit and run and onto the next.
I know there are flaky ones out there, I have been ghosted about 6 times in the last ten minutes when I should be getting the final address.....salvaged half of those to ones I had seen before.
About the only day I can session is Saturday, maybe a Sunday morning if inside that 2 hour radius. I know a lot of road girls take weekends off, always have to check which days “the 13th, 14th, and 15th of December “ are on to see if one of those are a Saturday.....most not.
Have tried to avoid early saturday mornings with young providers as have been ghosted the most in this situation, I’m thinking they went out the night before and a hangover is now priority.....but it could be overbooking or a steady client or better deal came up and I was bumped.
I also wonder when I give them my phone number, if they check the area code prefix, see that I live hours away, and just think I’m a time waster and dismiss my sincere session inquiries. Sometimes I state the area I live in, and explain that this is a sincere request to meet. My contact through emails or texts has been polite and professional......I understand using tacky or tasteless language and avoid that behavior as it is greatly rejected.
Have had around 50 sessions, most before I joined here and a couple I didn’t write reviews on here because before the session the provider requested no review to keep her perceived volume low. I respected those requests. Of those 50 I only had to cancel one, that was 2 days before as I was sick and didn’t know what my status would be the day of the session, didn’t want to share illness with her, and this gave her a chance to fill that schedule opening. I thought that was the correct thing to do.
I’m in my mid 50’s does age play a factor??? Hygiene is good, shave up chest and junk.....leave fresh showered in a cold car, long runs try to shower at motel or providers incall......do they assume I’m 5 hours away and will just look like I ran a marathon before walking through the door?
Other thoughts are I may be on some blacklist somewhere, would appreciate a link or something to check my status out.
All seems strange but it seems like I should have a better success than one in seven.....but for whatever ramblings I spoke of above that is the ratio I’m at. Is this normal across the industry or for you?
Could use some input from clients and providers on this one......what you all do in the writing and reading of emails to gain success or in the reading part to weed out clients you don’t want to see.....Thanks