But he would be wearing lingerie ...

Not sure how to present this question except to just spit it out.

How would you feel about another man being at the incall during an appointment? And by that, the man would be a submissive, probably cleaning house downstairs, while we were enjoying each other.

I have a client/friend who is REALLY into the whole cuckold scenario. And he has these fantasies of hearing a woman having sex with someone or just KNOWING that a woman is in bed with another man.

Please don't be judgmental. We have have our crosses to bear!

But I wouldn't wish for this person to be around if it would totally turn my guy off. So I would appreciate some input from the Alpha males in Dallas!!! (Ladies, please feel free to give some input as well. I'd appreciate it!)

Thanks!
Elisabeth

Now that I have been to some swinger clubs and had some group sessions in some strip clubs, I feel a lot more comfortable with the idea of some guy being around, possible even just watching. I do know how well I know the other guy does have an impact on my comfort level. Would not like to feel hes going to barge in with a gun at any second.

Maybe a swingers club would be better for him at first. He can watch without seeming to hover and blend into the crowd, possibility of the woman having several partners or even group sex. For me, that way he is just another guy in the room and makes it easy to ignore him and have fun with the woman. Prehaps after getting to know him a bit, the comfort level would be enough to do it at a private residence.

I wouldnt even care if he cleaned up the mess I left on you.. just sayn

Now that I have been to some swinger clubs and had some group sessions in some strip clubs, I feel a lot more comfortable with the idea of some guy being around, possible even just watching. I do know how well I know the other guy does have an impact on my comfort level. Would not like to feel hes going to barge in with a gun at any second.
... Originally Posted by Bubba3452

Well, if you met this person even if only briefly, you would know that he's not a threat. The swinger club idea is a good one. He used to be involved with those if I remember right.

My problem is that I don't go to swinger clubs and rarely strip clubs. Just not my thing. I like experiences to be a bit more private!

I'll think about your suggestions, Bubba. And thanks!!!

I wouldnt even care if he cleaned up the mess I left on you.. just sayn Originally Posted by dvldog2111

In his perfect world, you would be making his dreams come true! In fact, a lot of men fantasize about that. Now whether they will do it or not is debatable. Although most would go through with it in the heat of the moment.

I know. Some of you will go, "Gross!".

You sound like you care enough to make this happen for him, I like that. This is something that I wouldn't be interested in, doesn't make it a bad thing just cause I wouldn't do it. Since it is a little different you might offer a discount price for the man upstairs and have the man down stairs make up the difference.

Sharing some suggestive talk and perhaps some clothed foreplay in front of him prior to going upstairs would heighten his sense of enjoyment as well. I would enjoy this knowing that the other party was harmless.

I participated in something similar with a married couple I knew several years ago.

I didn't quite understand his interest in it but I was more than happy to help him live out his fantasies of watching me with his pretty wife I think the most extreme thing we did to him was make him pay for a dinner date. We went to a restaurant and had an expensive intimate dinner, while he sat alone at the bar. When the check came she sent it over to him to pay. He loved it. As we say, WALDT.

Now in a situation like this it would be more problematic, as Bubba covers above. I'd want to feel pretty comfortable about the guy beforehand but yeah, it can be interesting.

I've had a husband in the room (sitting quietly in a chair jacking off) while I hammered his wife's pussy, so it's ok in that scenario.

It depends. How are his bartending skills?

Sharing some suggestive talk and perhaps some clothed foreplay in front of him prior to going upstairs would heighten his sense of enjoyment as well. I would enjoy this knowing that the other party was harmless. Originally Posted by cheatercheater

It would be fine for him to get dressed up, or down , in front of the other party. Also, this is a fantasy for a few of my clients. It's just this one is very eager to do this. And I like the idea of it because I already know that he cleans a kitchen VERY well.

I've had a husband in the room (sitting quietly in a chair jacking off) while I hammered his wife's pussy, so it's ok in that scenario. Originally Posted by txcwby6

I might be a little queasy having him watch but well, it might work. Especially if I was comfortable with the guy doing the hammering.

(Do you hammer women? )

You sound like you care enough to make this happen for him, I like that. This is something that I wouldn't be interested in, doesn't make it a bad thing just cause I wouldn't do it. Since it is a little different you might offer a discount price for the man upstairs and have the man down stairs make up the difference. Originally Posted by thisguy23

Good idea.

Actually, I'm probably not alone in trying to achieve fantasies for those who have a hard time finding what they want and like. That might be a reason why I'm somewhat successful as a sporting woman!!!

I've tried to do other scenarios for men. Right now, I'm also looking for a "bull" for a different type of appointment. This man wouldn't be dressed in a sissy fashion. He's not into this.

But he is into the idea of watching a man with a huge cock "hammering" a woman. Good old fashioned cuckolding!

Damn. Gotta run! I LOVE these responses and thank you!

Elisabeth

What if it was an outcall and he was cleaning the clients place? Sounds like win win!

I have always enjoyed being the bull in a cuckold situation. The control factor in the situation of course can vary from him simply watching, him watching and being degraded to him forced to perform on the woman to cleanup. I have done all of the above.

Braggart!

Elisabeth,

As long as he is paying my session fee, he can watch.