Blow jobs: Nature or Nuture

There are lots of ladies who admit their phenomenal skills at waxing a willy were indeed learned. Some insist they were born naturals.

Which category do you fall in? Tell us how you learned to handle a stick!

Practice, Practice, Practice

Intuition plays a big part. And so does the pleasure I experience with each thrust in and out. When a cock is in my mouth, it's as if I'm worshiping it and whispering to it. I treat said cock as if it is both attached to, yet distinct from the person it belongs to. Sayings like "little head" or "big ego" figuratively convey the ways in which a cock is its own entity. But there is some truth to it. Over time, I've cultivated a sense of deeply hearing and honoring the needs of each cock. I'd say 80% nature, 20% nurture.

I go by reading his body language. I don't just go by the motions. I love using my tongue and play with the head. And never neglect the boys either. I have always gotten a moan when I go from the balls all the the way to the tip with my tongue and then dt it. It's part of foreplay. Ok now I'm horny again thanks. Where is my damn lotion...

I had NO CLUE how to give the blow job guys talk about until 5 years ago (I'll be happy to pass along the thanks to anyone who wants to thank the person who taught me.).
But by nature I'm never happy til I hear "you're the best at..." So I sucked, slurpped, got feedback, watched YouTube videos, porn videos (tough I know), and take every day as one to improve still!!
So what's next to master...

There are lots of ladies who admit their phenomenal skills at waxing a willy were indeed learned. Some insist they were born naturals.

Which category do you fall in? Tell us how you learned to handle a stick! Originally Posted by grean

Love to see ladies that try to perfect their craft!

I go by reading his body language. I don't just go by the motions. I love using my tongue and play with the head. And never neglect the boys either. I have always gotten a moan when I go from the balls all the the way to the tip with my tongue and then dt it. It's part of foreplay. Ok now I'm horny again thanks. Where is my damn lotion... Originally Posted by SexyPlatinum

Mmm I love that...slow licking the cock from the boys to the head then slowly deepthroating it....

Most ladies can do it very well, but the real question is will they? Same as the rest of session, they CAN make a guy's visit memorable (in a good way) making him feel glad he is a man and she is glad he spent his money on her, but WILL she?

I've been driving guys crazy with my head skills since wayyy back. I guess u can call me a natural my head game is insane

I go by reading his body language. I don't just go by the motions. I love using my tongue and play with the head. And never neglect the boys either. I have always gotten a moan when I go from the balls all the the way to the tip with my tongue and then dt it. It's part of foreplay. Ok now I'm horny again thanks. Where is my damn lotion... Originally Posted by SexyPlatinum

Dang SP!! You not the only 1 who going to need lotion!!

I go by reading his body language. I don't just go by the motions. I love using my tongue and play with the head. And never neglect the boys either. I have always gotten a moan when I go from the balls all the the way to the tip with my tongue and then dt it. It's part of foreplay. Ok now I'm horny again thanks. Where is my damn lotion... Originally Posted by SexyPlatinum

WOW! SP after reading that I imagine you aren't the only 1 getting horny and needing lotion. I mean it may be time for a trip to Dallas to just meet you!!

ditto with ladies above

practice makes perfect...I was always told "you make love to a cock"!!!

Does it matter when all ya care about is the 10 minutes of silence?

Aside from the fact humans are all hardwired to yearn for something in their mouths for a multitude of reasons, how the hell is someone naturally good at sucking cock?!

It continues to amaze me how many professionals suck at it. No pun intended. There are still way too many gals that seem to treat it like one more item to check off a list before they can move on to checking off positions on the same list.