El Paso Providers

Been trying to get into the hobby and spend that trump check only problem is only been to amp's. Saw a few ads and i fell in love with the pictures. Only problem they asked for reference and i didnt have any. So my question can you guys tell me best place to start for newbie? Or sugest any providers?

Keep your approach polite, clean, respectful, & not explicit.

Message who you're interested with sincerity, ask if they are newbie friendly/reference. Be aware that most established providers will require either real world information or provider references.

Do your research, look at reviews, webpage, the providers specific requirements.

The best intial contacts include some basic info and that you're new to the hobby.

Ex. Hey Jane, I saw you on Eccie. I'm John (johndoe on Eccie)white, 45, looking for a one hour appt on Thursday. Would you be available? I'm a newbie and don't have any established references. Saw on your profile that you're newbie friendly. What information do you need from me?

That's nearly a word for word message I recieved recently. Establish your self with one or two providers and ask if you can utilize them as a reference.

Hope this helps.

Everything lovely Emma said is perfect. Just make sure you're contacting newbie friendly ladies. A lot aren't offering sessions bc of covid though so keep that in mind

Though I’m not from ELP I wanted to add my 1 & 11/16 cents on this one. I agree with what the ladies said on the approach but I’d like to add to LovelyEmma’s comment on research. Do your homework! There are tons of players and bait/switch out there. Look for reviews, search handles/numbers/pictures, etc. no offense to the culture but around Mid/Ode the Asian ads are a set up for the bait & switch. Look for what is offered and see if any specified donation fits the hangout you are looking for (ie: bbfs Vs cfs and the like). Personally, I never try to negotiate. I think it is a bit disrespectful and if I’m not interested enough for the terms listed I move on. I’m pretty new to ECCIE but not so much the hobby. Get involved online and generate encounter reports when you can. Never ever agree to send any “security deposit “!!! Whatever you do, remain polite and never be afraid to wait to spend that hard earned stimulus! Good luck and stay safe.

What are the best sites for research i look at here and oh2 for review and for the ads i usually look at skipthe game any sites i really should know about?

P411 is honestly where I get really respectful people. Eccie usually has nice people as well. So if you're here, you get extra points. I'd been around for like 6 months before I'd even heard of review sites