Getting Started?

What is a good way to get started in this hobby when it's your first time contacting an online provider? I've contacted a few providers and they ask for references or the names of other providers I've been with so they can do sort of a "background check".

I've only been with two other providers in my life. One I last saw about two years ago, the other I last saw about six months ago. Both of which were not listed online, and I have lost contact with both of them.

I tell them this, and I never hear from them again.

So, I'm stuck at an area where I have to have had SEEN a provider in order to see another provider.

Does this make sense? Any tips??

read read read... get as much information on here as you can... there are all kinds of links that will provide with answers to the questions you have... all you have to do is look around..

If you have no reference,you will either need to find a "newbie friendly" gal to see or you will need to 'give up some important info" to get you verified.....

best to ya babe!!