Ok, before reading this nobody should take this as a negative "review"!!! I was able to make it 4 hours driving time to the Margarita social, and had previously contacted Ms. Julia to have a meeting afterwards, I was able to meet Ms. Julia at social and was eager to see more of her (wink, wink). So I had introduced myself and to avoid any discussions there simply left it at I would text when we left. So we decide on my hotel, since I was going to have to get one anyway, and since it was near the social, got a room on Northwest Hwy from a National Chain that I have stayed at numerous times. Julia texts me that she'll be there in 30 minutes, 30 minutes goes by and text her to see if she was close and she says about 15 minutes, 15 minutes later she calls and I giver her room and directions to entrance (was a little difficult to see, particularly at night) so I can see her pull in from my room window and anticipate the knock at the door, several minutes go by and so I try to call her and happen to look out window and see her getting back into her car and drive off, she calls me back and says, the people at the hotel started questioning her, is she a guest, who is she seeing, blah blah blah, and she freaks out and takes off.
I could tell she was shaken up by experience and she says she can't talk she wants to get out of there, so I call back 10-15 minutes later to see if we can still meet...as it was already getting late, she mentions she would have to get a room at her normal incall and it was 20 minutes away...and acted like it was a bit of a hassel to do, but she was willing to since we were suppose to meet...I appreciated her williness to try to make arrangements where we could still see each other...but not real familiar with DFW and having had a long day and a couple of drinks, I didn't want to drive around for 45 minutes, so I missed out on seeing the beautiful Ms. Julia.
I usually do incalls, but next time I have an outcall at a hotel...how do you avoid these circumstances???