Full time Providers and Part time Providers
I am a full time provider and I am proud of it. I have worked alot of jobs in my life time and sometimes I worked two at time and if you consider a full time mom then how about three. There are alot of full time providers that are great at this and loves this and would nt want to do anything else with her time. If a provider wants to do this part time that is her right but to judge or put down girls that do this full time isnt right. It does nt make a provider better to do this part time over a full time provider. It like providers that are low volume and high volume. It is the providers decision if she wants to be high volume or low volume. There are some girls that may see one a day or one a week. I think it is the ladies choice how many guys she sees a day and as long as she gives great service it nt right for others to judge her. We are suppose to be adults here so sometimes it would be nice to be like that instead of being in high school. Thanks for your time. Hugs and Kisses
From my experiance most of the full time providers have there act down and really care about their reputation and service level. The part time providers seem to give it just enough effort to get by. I'm sure there are great part time providers out there but I'm just speaking from my own personal experiance.
Truly
The fact that a provider is part time or full time has no meaning to me and probably most of the clients. What I look for is are you thinking of me when I am with you. I never ask if you are seeing only me this week Just are you treating me as though I am the one you want to be with right now. I have ladies that are both and when I am with either of them I feel like I am a sultan. The one thing that pisses me off is a cell phone going off when I am with you. Vibrate is just as much of a distraction as the ringing. Turn off the damn phone and check for messages when I leave.
It is none of my business if a provider is full or part time, low or high volume. It is also none of my business if I am the first, last, or whatever number asshat the provider has entertained. I am only concerned about my time with a lady and her attitude.
From my experiance most of the full time providers have there act down and really care about their reputation and service level. The part time providers seem to give it just enough effort to get by. I'm sure there are great part time providers out there but I'm just speaking from my own personal experiance.
Originally Posted by rrabbit6926
I'll give you that, but there are some part time providers that care about their reputations. You can tell the difference. There are the ladies that dart in and out, put up an ad or two, and they're not back until they need something. But there are some well-established part time ladies around that care about their reputation too.
No one should be putting anyone down for participating in this industry at any point. Low or high volume is in the eye of the beholder.
Im part-time, and care about my reputation. And the majority of guys I see like the idea that this isnt my main profession, since Im honest and will tell ya that if I had to deal with it(screening, scheduling, etc.) full time I would be a total bitch and become mechanical--at that point when it ceases to be fun then I would quit.
Part-time allows me to enjoy the time off from my reality, as it is my escape as well, which is what I have in common with those who see me to escape their normal stressful lives.
So dont knock us part-time babes. If anything we enjoy it more since its not day in day out, same shit different day, and we are less likely to suffer from burn-out. Just sayn...
There are times where I have been full time and times where I was part time. I'm sure we all at some point of our career where being an escort is put on the back burner isn't the highest priority and there are also times where I can imagine being an escort until some stud fucks me so hard my hip bone pops out of its socket.
We are all hookers who do the same thing. So if some uppity prostitute wants to look down on me because I take in a few more dicks a month than she does, she can feel free to get her temporary superiority high while kissing my ass because the last thing I care about is another woman's dick quota for the week.
Truly
The fact that a provider is part time or full time has no meaning to me and probably most of the clients. What I look for is are you thinking of me when I am with you. I never ask if you are seeing only me this week Just are you treating me as though I am the one you want to be with right now. I have ladies that are both and when I am with either of them I feel like I am a sultan. The one thing that pisses me off is a cell phone going off when I am with you. Vibrate is just as much of a distraction as the ringing. Turn off the damn phone and check for messages when I leave.
Originally Posted by tucson
It is none of my business if a provider is full or part time, low or high volume. It is also none of my business if I am the first, last, or whatever number asshat the provider has entertained. I am only concerned about my time with a lady and her attitude.
Originally Posted by pyramider
Spoken like true gentleman, what matters is the quality of the service not the frequency it is provided.
A provider could tell me that I am her only session for the month and it wouldn't make any difference if the session sucked. I agree either full time or part time if you do a quality session your ok in my book
Skylar you rock babe. One lady I have fun with is Dallas Rain and the other is so far under the radar. I feal like a king when I am with them. Another lady is a very low volume provider and she is my ATF it's just she lives in Houston. What is funny is they are all mature providers and know what I like and need.
- Old-T
- 08-08-2012, 11:51 PM
I am a full time provider and I am proud of it. I have worked alot of jobs in my life time and sometimes I worked two at time and if you consider a full time mom then how about three. There are alot of full time providers that are great at this and loves this and would nt want to do anything else with her time. If a provider wants to do this part time that is her right but to judge or put down girls that do this full time isnt right. It does nt make a provider better to do this part time over a full time provider. It like providers that are low volume and high volume. It is the providers decision if she wants to be high volume or low volume. There are some girls that may see one a day or one a week. I think it is the ladies choice how many guys she sees a day and as long as she gives great service it nt right for others to judge her. We are suppose to be adults here so sometimes it would be nice to be like that instead of being in high school. Thanks for your time. Hugs and Kisses
Originally Posted by Truly Passion
It is unfortunate that anyone would think less of a lady because she is doing this full time--or because she is doing it part time. It's about the PERSON, not how many jobs they do or don't work.
I have found the only real difference is the "part time" lady who has a day job is sometimes less flexible in what hours I can see her.
The fact there are high volume, low volume, full time and part time providers is a reflection of what the ladies can handle, and what hobbyists want. Personally, I don't want to be #7 out of 10 for the day. I appreciate knowing (or at least believing) I'm 1 of 1, or 1 of 2 for the day. I prefer longer appointments...a rarity among high volume providers. I prefer intelligent, well-spoken companionship - also a rarity among high volume providers (IMHO). I also have found full time (moderate to low volume) providers to be somewhat more dependable in terms of responsiveness, timeliness, and consistency of service. That said, the differences don't entitle anyone to be hurtful, rude, or mean.
We're all in this together - we need to support and protect each other. As Ben Franklin once said, "We must hang together, or we will surely hang seperately."
I think it kind of ties into the post about other sex workers looking down upon "whores"
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=513668
I use to be guilty of looking down at others because of one reason or another - someone pointed it out to me and then I was really ashamed of myself.
When we boil things down, we are all just trying to do what we need to do. As long as good service is given - who are we to judge?
Define full time and part time please. Actually, I don't think you can when it comes to being a provider. You either are a provider or you are not. I think it is more of a question about volume-- high or low and not full or part time.
A part time provider has a full time job other than providing. A part time provider does not travel unless she has vacation time to travel. A part time provider pays income taxes. A part time provider will have an evening only schedule.