I have found that a lot of Providers who have been around for awhile claim to be settled in the business with no worries and a regular flow of clientele. My question is, if they are so "SETTLED" and content with their business, why do some (not ALL) feel the need to use distasteful tactics to block other Providers? One example of this is blatantly encouraging other Providers NOT TO provide someone with reference information. Gentlemen, if you knew a lady operated in this way, would it influence your decision to spend time with her?