Cockblocking by other providers not giving references!!!!!

This may come out sounding horrible so sorry if it does. I dont understand how another provider can not help out a client or another provider with a referral. How hard is it to give a Yes or No. To me that is cockblocking and it is so wrong. I believe who a man goes and sees is his biz and how much he spends is his biz. I have recieved phone calls or text while I am home and not working and I try my best to answer all girls as soon as I can because I dont want the man to miss out on a great time and I dont want the girl to miss out on her money. We should be here to help each other out not cockblock. I do my best to help any man out that comes and sees me and I have even done my best to find girls for guys if I wasnt able to be seen. We need to be safe but how can we be if we dont help each other? How nt helping the other girl out is dangerous for the provider cause she may take a chance and get hurt or robbed. It is so wrong not to help a man out also. We are not their SO and it is not right to tell him who he can see and if he does you wont see him. I dont really care who a guy sees cause does guys really want a list of whom I have seen? I hope ladies the ones that cant help others out realize that you may have cost that girl money to pay a bill or gas in her car and a great client for her. If I was a guy and found out this provider is cockblocking I wouldnt see her anymore. Guys dont ever think I care who you see and I will always do my best to help you out to see anyone. We all are here to have fun and enjoy life and to be safe so lets help each other out as much as we can so we can be safe. Thanks for anyone that reads this and please if you have rude remarks please go find a bathroom wall to write on. Hugs and Kisses TP*

Passion,
I cannot agree more. I believe that as providers we have a certain responsibility to help each other with references and screening. It is not just cockblocking but it's just plain silly to think that I would be the only girl a hobbyist would be seeing. If they wanted to be with the same woman every day they would just see their SO. LOL. Sure, every girl wants to be someone's ATF. But we are never their one and only. That is the point of hobbying. Variety.

I agree too. I've seen clients who have told me that providers refues to serve as references until after his second or third visit with her. That is wrong too. Some guys aren't looking for a regular provider. They want a little "strange" now and then. I say let them have their fun and we providers should do all we can to keep each other safe. Giving references is the best way to do that. Thanks for the post, truly passion.

Not only am I a firm believer in giving references... I also love to give recommendations to my gents when they are looking for a particular flavor. This is all supposed to be for fun and you can't have fun if you have to be worried about who is on the other side of that door.

No thank you girls for adding the great responses. It means alot to me. It is so true if he wanted one girl he would have a SO. My neighbor told me along time ago men like different color M&M's and it so true. Men may want a hot girl one day, a girl that is calm and mild the next time or just something he never thought about. How can he do that if we dont help him with yes or no and how fair is it if we dont help each other out so we can besafe. Heck he may want Sonic one day and Outback the next. I hope that others with realize nt helping is hurting us all not helping. Hugs TP*

Not only am I a firm believer in giving references... I also love to give recommendations to my gents when they are looking for a particular flavor. This is all supposed to be for fun and you can't have fun if you have to be worried about who is on the other side of that door. Originally Posted by GracePreston

+1................it is all about variety!

What's even funnier is when the lady tells the guy that he owes her a session for the reference...

Then bullies him into following through.

-_-

Fucking Cunts.

I posted a thread about this same thing a while back. I still can't get the majority of the girls I contact to get back to me....wth? I would like to give a shout out to the other ladies that realize that without the gents our extra income would be nill!
Truly Passion, BBW Katrina, EmilyEzzell, Auroa Bright, Kelly TNT, Kandy Kelly, Amber Rain, Fawn....I am sure I have missed a few. Thanks girls for being so AWESOME!
Hopefully the rest of the ladies will step up to the plate!
Hobby Safely,
Kendall Kain

Passion,
I cannot agree more. I believe that as providers we have a certain responsibility to help each other with references and screening. It is not just cockblocking but it's just plain silly to think that I would be the only girl a hobbyist would be seeing. If they wanted to be with the same woman every day they would just see their SO. LOL. Sure, every girl wants to be someone's ATF. But we are never their one and only. That is the point of hobbying. Variety. Originally Posted by TerresaPena

Great Answer Terresa! BTW, you are on my bucket list. I will be calling you in the future. Your reviews are awesome.

OK ladies let the gents know when they call back who refused to give a reference. I know one that if she gives me a reference it will be bad. I warn when I book through P-411 that if they call her she will call me every thing but nice. The only way we will know who refuses a reference is if you tell us. I won't expect you to post the names of the ones that don't give a reference.

Women are scandalous!!!!!! I try my best to give a reference asap........and havent had any problem yet thank god..........Women can be so trifling.............

What's even funnier is when the lady tells the guy that he owes her a session for the reference...

Then bullies him into following through.

-_-

Fucking Cunts. Originally Posted by ~Ze~

I have heard of this happening. I just dont understand cockblocking. I may just be a perv... but i find it hot when I know a lady is about to get her world rocked by a guy i KNOW can bring it... or that one of the gentlemen I have met is about to get his world rocked by a lady that I KNOW can bring it... its just fucking hot!!

Well said Brandee! I've contacted NUMEROUS PROVIDERS who for whatever reason.choose to wait until a week or 2 go by of just don't reply at all. If they want a Guy to themselves then they need to make that KNOWN FIRST OFF and get a damn boyfriend who can take care of them like I'm sure most guys here on ECCIE have done with providers. Its sad that we are ALL doing the same thing yet don't SUPPORT each other and work to help keep us safe. Scandalous and trifling are just a few nice words to describe those ladies.....

First off, all of the ladies who've responded I like just a lil bit more now. The entire reason I got into this stuff is because I like the entire pack of m&m's like TP said. I like a bit of everything, as we all do. If I know a woman is awesome and I recommend her, I look forward to getting a report back lol. And the ultimate flattery is when a provider gives another a heads up about a client. We're all here because we like different flavors and I'd like to taste every woman who has responded to this thread.

All the ladies who responded to this thread are now on my 'to-see' list!
As a guy, if I am contacting a lady, I want to see her! If she is checking my referances, she deserves a response from the ladies that she contacts regarding the ladies I've seen. Doesn't have to be a detailed account, just a good or bad or no. just be considerate of how long it is before the reply.
The guys work together to find out the good girls, so the ladies should work togetther to keep seeing the good guys.