Booking timeframes

What’s the normal timeframe in advance for booking? As a newbie I’ve been keen to book ahead kind of assuming it’s like the dentist and you want to make sure you can get in ahead of time as opposed to waiting till you have toothache and finding there’s no appointments. But, obviously crazy shit happens. So from a provider and a hobbyist point of view, what’s the norm for timeframe of setting an appointment ahead of time?

It depends on the gal.
Before I went off clock, some of mine were a year out.
Seriously. When folks plan vacas, of course.

But actually getting back to your question:
It depends on the gal.
Traveling gals like to book a week or two out, or more.
Local, a couple days, or more.

But even that can be different from gal to gal.
Thus, all of the above is useless.

Here's a thought, ask the gal you're interested in what her preference is.

If I’m traveling and like someone I reach out and try to book out. I currently have one 5 weeks from now. I tend to like longer sessions like lunch or dinner dates so maybe that plays into it. I want a date not the deed.

If I’m traveling and like someone I reach out and try to book out. I currently have one 5 weeks from now. I tend to like longer sessions like lunch or dinner dates so maybe that plays into it. I want a date not the deed. Originally Posted by Mplay

That makes sense and is more my inclination. The one provider I met so far though said she’s available 24/7 like ER. But I’m like realistically if I called her at 3am I’m sure she’d be annoyed right? On the flip side I had one set well ahead of time I had to cancel and she was annoyed so I paid her anyway as I didn’t want to disrespect her or waste her time so I’m looking for a happy medium. I read this article on Tryst about being a good hobbyist so I’m trying to not be that problem guy but it left some blanks in the Need to Know

Personally, I’m a fan of booking in advance as a gesture of respect towards the providers time and schedule. If the person I’ve reached out to says that they’d rather confirm closer to the desired date, so be it, but as long as your respectful in the communication, I don’t see the harm in reaching out in advance. Same would go for cancelling. I had to cancel an appointment a while back and as soon as I knew, I reached out, again, out of respect for their schedule.

I try to book several days out for someone in town. A week or more for someone coming into town. Even then you might not get a spot, if the lady's phone is blowing up.
Then I will usually send a text the morning to tell them everything is still good on my end. Text me if something comes up on your end.

I generally book at least a week in advance, especially for a lady who's visiting. Then be sure to confirm the day before as well...

If I know at least a day in advance you want 3 Am it's no problem, I've done it many times. I like at least a day notice but prefer to know more in advance when possible,I know it's hard to plan sometimes & things come up unexpectedly. Long as you're respectful and giving notices the minute you know,that's what counts. This way if there's enough time that spot can be filled.

It depends on the gal.
Before I went off clock, some of mine were a year out.
Seriously. When folks plan vacas, of course.

But actually getting back to your question:
It depends on the gal.
Traveling gals like to book a week or two out, or more.
Local, a couple days, or more.

But even that can be different from gal to gal.
Thus, all of the above is useless.

Here's a thought, ask the gal you're interested in what her preference is. Originally Posted by Unique_Carpenter

UC nailed it. I've known (very few) local ladies that wanted same day only. Doesn't make sense to me but it's their business.
When I go to Vegas I usually make contact about 3 months in advance. Some ladies book my appointment then & some have said to contact them 2-7 days in advance.
So contact early & ask her how far in advance she prefers to book appointments.

I travel alot so I like to book a couple weeks ahead so that way I have an idea of how trip is gonna go
and lucky for me Ive got lots of awesome repeat friends who book in advance once I get word that I am headed their way

but i do iccasionally take last minute appts but only for really good vetted gents or repeat friends

OK cool so basically everyone here has reaffirmed what I thought was the best way to proceed for all parties concerned. Thanks for the advice. I appreciate it.