Help With my Birthday Wish

You can delete this thread if its inappropriate or in the wrong place. Honestly this was the only place I could think of to post this.

I got the big 40th birthday coming up and I wanted to do something special for it. TLDR is that I want to make my own amateur porn video. But the loser I am I dont have a girlfriend. So I was wondering if anyone here might know any working girls I could do this with? Or at least point me in the right direction.

This would be for my own private use, and would never be shared.

Any help is apretiated.
Rainbird4668's Avatar
Take your pick... see who is doing it on OnlyFans with clients and book her. Be delicate how you approach creating content with them.... you'll probably have better luck asking a provider at the end of a successful encounter... setting content creation up for the next encounter.
Get somebody to do the video work. If you try to do it yourself, you have to pay attention to doing the video instead of doing the lady. If you put the camera on a tripod, you’re either too far away for any detail, or so close that some of the action is outside area recorded. My suggestion would be to schedule a session with two ladies who like to work together and have them take turns with the camera.
rooster's Avatar
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This would be for my own private use, and would never be shared.
... Originally Posted by Blue67
So said Gabby's BF....

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So said Gabby's BF....

. Originally Posted by rooster
Not sure what your referencing to, but not all people are jerks. Obviously I have no way to prove that I will keep my word, so I understand that its a risk.
Get somebody to do the video work. If you try to do it yourself, you have to pay attention to doing the video instead of doing the lady. If you put the camera on a tripod, you’re either too far away for any detail, or so close that some of the action is outside area recorded. My suggestion would be to schedule a session with two ladies who like to work together and have them take turns with the camera. Originally Posted by Crazy Bob
Yea I was thinking the same thing. It would go more smoothly with an extra person. The issue for me is finding these people since I dont know where to look.
Take your pick... see who is doing it on OnlyFans with clients and book her. Be delicate how you approach creating content with them.... you'll probably have better luck asking a provider at the end of a successful encounter... setting content creation up for the next encounter. Originally Posted by Rainbird4668
Its not really for content creation. Its for only myself when Im feeling lonely at home. I said I would not share it and I mean it.
Rainbird4668's Avatar
Its not really for content creation. Its for only myself when Im feeling lonely at home. I said I would not share it and I mean it. Originally Posted by Blue67
I get that. I do the same thing. Truly a rewarding experience shooting and editing your own POV video.

But the girls will call it content creation, thats why i called it that.
valkyra's Avatar
if you're looking for girls, check either here
www.skipthegames.com
or here
www.tryst.link
Plastic Man's Avatar
This would be for my own private use, and would never be shared. Originally Posted by Blue67
stand yer ground plastic man ...ats yer service an willin ta shoots ...this amazin ...event fer yas

...low angle shots ...included free ...a charge
if you're looking for girls, check either here
www.skipthegames.com
or here
www.tryst.link Originally Posted by valkyra
Thanks, I do know of both sites, but its really hard for me to guess who would be willing and who is a good provider.

I did message a few people, but I really dont want to put this on blast and message every single provider. Thats why I was hoping for a little bit of guidance. So I dont embarrass myself, or do something Id regret.
Might take a while. Watch for established ladies advertising duo sessions!often on their twitter pages, and ask about video. More likely to get a yes from two ladies comfortable working together. For instance, Busty Baby Girl advertising some upcoming duo sessions. Be polite. Expect most of them to decline. If they do, take “no” for an answer and move on.
valkyra's Avatar
Thanks, I do know of both sites, but its really hard for me to guess who would be willing and who is a good provider.

I did message a few people, but I really dont want to put this on blast and message every single provider. Thats why I was hoping for a little bit of guidance. So I dont embarrass myself, or do something Id regret. Originally Posted by Blue67
You can check reviews on this site "eccie" to get a good idea of what providers are "good" and what providers are "bad".
https://eccie.net/forumdisplay.php?f=1883
That is the Eccie Upstate Review Page. You can't see ROS (full encounter details) because you don't have a premium account but you can at least see which ones are recommended and which ones aren't. You can start from there, and then make a list of the "Yes" recommendations who you find attractive. Now your list should be significantly smaller - Those are the girls you email or text. Make sure to make a note if any of these girls on their profiles explicitly say if they DO or DON'T sell content. Girls that DO sell content will be more open to being recorded.

I would recommend starting off politely by introducing yourself, explaining what you are looking for, and then ASK if they would be interested in something like this. If they respond yes, bingo! If they respond no, thank them for their time and be on your way.

I wish you the best of luck in this! I hope this helped a bit
You can check reviews on this site "eccie" to get a good idea of what providers are "good" and what providers are "bad".
https://eccie.net/forumdisplay.php?f=1883
That is the Eccie Upstate Review Page. You can't see ROS (full encounter details) because you don't have a premium account but you can at least see which ones are recommended and which ones aren't. You can start from there, and then make a list of the "Yes" recommendations who you find attractive. Now your list should be significantly smaller - Those are the girls you email or text. Make sure to make a note if any of these girls on their profiles explicitly say if they DO or DON'T sell content. Girls that DO sell content will be more open to being recorded.

I would recommend starting off politely by introducing yourself, explaining what you are looking for, and then ASK if they would be interested in something like this. If they respond yes, bingo! If they respond no, thank them for their time and be on your way.

I wish you the best of luck in this! I hope this helped a bit Originally Posted by valkyra
Thanks, its definitely helpful. The only issue I have with the eccie reviews is that I might see a girl Im interested in, and her recommendations from different people are both YES and NO. But I guess its a good start.

I always treat every worker with respect and kindness, they are people too, but Im not super experienced so I dont really know 'the ropes' or what red flags to look out for. But again, thanks for helping.
stand yer ground plastic man ...ats yer service an willin ta shoots ...this amazin ...event fer yas

...low angle shots ...included free ...a charge Originally Posted by Plastic Man
So are you pulling my leg here?