What do you think of them? Does it turn you on when she acts like she's God's gift? Is she over compensating for poor self worth and felt sorry for? Does her attitude factor in when you schedule with her? If she makes you feel like you are lucky she even acknowledged you, what do you really think of her when you are fucking her? What about the girls who trash other girls to you? If she talks about them to you, what does she say about you?
Confidence is great. Arrogance and false pride are disgusting to me. I have friends that are average and some that are extremely beautiful. One of the ladies I know is really pretty on the outside, but she's so humble and laid back. That's what makes her a dime piece to me. There's something to be said for humility and grace.