Am I doing something wrong?

Seriously!

I have been stood up, NCNShowed, etc.., a ridiculous amount of times lately. The setup part of the hobby has begun to make the payoff worthless to me, as there usually isn't one. I had thought that it was because I usually look for short notice, but even giving it days of planning and texts, the hobby is failing me miserably.

I am literally trying to give these ladies cash for time. I am a tall, fit, nice man, who is prompt and respectful. I shower and shave before appointments, and show up presentable and sometimes with gifts. This has become ridiculous.

It's the same here. Providers will say they'll get back to me after screening but never do. I got cash to burn but no one gets back to me. OH well...more cash for dancers.

Cum see me nerdy xo

I'd love to see you.

Same here. I've had five dates fall through in the last six weeks.

Without names or NCNS reviews.. it's just a rant..
therefore no contribution to the community

Tuesday (4 days ago)

https://eccie.net/member.php?u=285917

Today- the one i had planned since Wednesday:

https://eccie.net/member.php?u=396282
The irony of the name!


A few weeks ago it was:

https://eccie.net/member.php?u=393467 She informed me late afternoon that she had no incall, even though we had agreed upon an incall date.

https://eccie.net/member.php?u=348219
Absolute crickets since, even though I attempted a follow up PM


Today was the only one that at least I didn't drive to area with cash for. There hav been more, but those are recent. Kitty did contact me hours after our scheduled time, and Tori contacted me days after, in an attempt to reschedule, when I had no time. I didn't bother- I am certain my time would have been wasted again.

I guess its right what they say about Karma. Lol

Did it to me too

Tuesday (4 days ago)

https://eccie.net/member.php?u=285917

Today- the one i had planned since Wednesday:

https://eccie.net/member.php?u=396282
The irony of the name!


A few weeks ago it was:

https://eccie.net/member.php?u=393467 She informed me late afternoon that she had no incall, even though we had agreed upon an incall date.

https://eccie.net/member.php?u=348219
Absolute crickets since, even though I attempted a follow up PM


Today was the only one that at least I didn't drive to area with cash for. There hav been more, but those are recent. Kitty did contact me hours after our scheduled time, and Tori contacted me days after, in an attempt to reschedule, when I had no time. I didn't bother- I am certain my time would have been wasted again. Originally Posted by nerdy123

I had the ultimate disrespect 3 weeks ago.
I had two appointments set up, one on Tuesday and another on Wednesday with the same provider and she called to reschedule both only to read the reviews of the guys I was passed over for.
Now that takes the fucking cake!

Wow, sucks to put up with that bullshit
Call me I'll leave your coc* drained & happy...
Right? mitch p

^^^ yea she will.

I did no recognize the ones in your OP except one. I tend to see ladies that have been here at least a year. Newbies don't get the TCB part.

Sam

Sonya will for sure!

did these providers have good reviews? I can see cancelling for emergency and I mean emergency but that many times it has happened to you is unreal.I am truly sorry for that love. I am guessing it might be that you will start by seeing a provider that has only great reviews.I know if I tell you that I am going to see you I will definitely see you. that's so frustrating and rude. please don't give up love this is a great site with many lovely providers that take pride in what they do. I am sorry you had this experience but do feel you will have a great one soon if you go with a well known provider thanks for speaking up sweetie. You can text me anytime 2108194634 love xóxoxo

My personal recent NC/NS rate with Eccie providers is about 90%, and I'm talking about well established providers with several YEARS of positive reviews.

I have 22 P411 OKs from providers all over the country as well as overseas, and am on the TER Whitelist as well.

I recently found out from the Honest Escorts on Twitter that most really professional providers (travel extensively, have their TCB skills down, etc.) think that the TER Whitelist is worthless, and that Eccie is just as bad as BackPage or MocoSpace as far as finding quality clients. (Their opinions, not mine.) Apparently, they don't like that fact that Eccie reviewers can post reviews that are crude and inaccurate as far as BCD activities, and if the provider tries to tell her side of the story, she gets shamed off the island. They documented three providers who got off Eccie because they were punished for trying to tell their side of the review by publicly "outing" their real name, address, etc. to the families including their minor children. With some of the behavior that I've seen on the Texas forums, I'm surprised that ANY provider would want to be reviewed on Eccie.

I have the highest success rate with mature providers over 40 that have been providing for quite a while and have a long track record of good reviews on TER. I exclusively use P411 to get screened.

Back in the ASPD days, I had very few problems with ASPD providers - in fact, I met exceptional ladies that not only had great TCB and BCD skills but were just wonderful ladies as well. Those days are gone forever, but I still miss them.

You're unlikely to find a diamond in a dairy pasture, so I suggest you try different review boards that actually review your review before posting it, and start getting a list of P411 OKs - I find that invaluable, especially when I'm traveling.

Just my $0.02, respectfully submitted.

Anon out.

2cents appreciated I am on p411 as well and never heard of eccie until I came here to Texas in northern States I was getting reviewed on ter so I am about a yr into eccie site with no problems for me so far in northern States p411 was the better ave.to tk so I have enjoyed them all just use what's best in city I'm in