Does my question not rise to a response from a (mod)!
Have been a sponser of this life style for a while, not an expert. That thread was at face value a female that was married to a hobbiest and she is very confused and upset that a provider banged him,,to me that’s very relevant because that is the underling true factual reason of over maybe 80% of the male participants in this hobby. It’s the “forgiveness” that a male sees as reasonable, that there is no reciprocity motive behind said event. I’ve never seen a deletion of a conversation as relevant to the reality of what is really going on,,this has nothing to do with an illegal behavior or a trafficking scenario, it’s a real life “feeling” that folks of all demographics experience - sex diminishes us all to the very basic instinct that life has created. Who here is bigger than that? In the fu**ing panhandle of all places to set a precedent for the whole forum