Here's a question I've always wondered about.
As a hobbyist, are you more apt to make an appointment with a girl who puts an ad up on P411 say, 3 weeks in advance, or rather, 3 days in advance? In other words, does it make a difference when she places the ad whether or not you see her? If it's 'too long' ahead of when she actually gets into town, would you 'forget' about seeing her, or be more likely to see the girl who places her ad just days ( or ON the day) she gets into town?