I have a few things to address.
I do not see clients who message me with no trail or trace. I do not know how other providers do it BUT I WILL NOT !!
A lot of men have been on eccie for years but have not seen a provider, do not want to send references or do not want to be screened. Then you have the ones who have been on eccie may have 2 or 3 reviews from more than a year ago and not active. YOU ARE CONSIDERED A NEWBIE IN MY BOOK.
Only clients who are "active" on ECCIE or P411 or what ever other connected site Get those privileges.
I WILL NOT give a newbie the same rate or actions as a client who has done the "footwork" to be a "recognized" member. Or to a client who has "fallen out of the game" as the say.
I do not understand if you are a member on this site why aren't you willing to be screened if you can see my reviews and my face donation and general location area ?
I don't know about other providers but all I want to know if you are safe or not and you are who you say you are... that's it that's all
Another thing. I am a provider but yet I am an adult. I should not have to explain why I am uncomfortable with some type of sexual act. When a person says NO. That should be it and move on to the next thing.
Also FELLAS. YOU ARE NOT HOSTAGE!!! If there is something that you do not like or uncomfortable with EXPRESS THAT.