Kissing

I love to kiss a beautiful woman during a session. A good passionate,slow intense DFK, takes a average session and turns it into a great session, IMHO. I find it interesting that providers will give me a great BBBJ, let me DATY, and do pretty much any else but they seem to be moving away from DFK these days. Now I am meticulous with making sure my breath is good and my mouth is clean, so I know it is not that. Ladies, why are you not wanting to DFK? Just curious....

That's a great question RI. I would speculate that the gals that don't DFK this is the one thing to them that is so intimate that they save that for the one that is most special. I would like to hear the ladies inputs on this as well.

Some ladies may think it's too personal if they have someone outside of the hobby.
Sometimes the lady may be so focused that it just doesn't happen.
I am one that enjoys kissing, yet I have noticed that sometimes it just doesn't happen.

It just kills me when I want to but am not allowed to....

Hoggars have watched "Pretty Woman" too many times and bought into that intimacy BS.

DFK is an Erotic act if done correctly and is much less intimate than a sloppy, gagging BBBJ.

Make sure that you let the lady know in advance that it's important to you.

consider all the germ and disease possibility with fluid exchange done with kissing, herpes, mono, flue, Hepatitis, HPV(warts) glandular fever, colds, meningitis, the exchange of millions of germs.

civie girls open to DFK "make out sessions" often on first date. BBBJ comes later after a level of trust & friendship is developed. Cost...dinner, drinks, night out

Hoogarsopen to sloppy BBBJ within first 5 minutes. DFK comes later after a level of trust & friendship is developed. Cost: negotiable based on proximity to the running of the salmon.

Would like to keep this a serious conversation please.

Age difference, would you want a old woman's tongue forced down your throat?

Age difference, would you want a old woman's tongue forced down your throat? Originally Posted by black sunshine

If I am being paid $200+ per hr.. Bring her on!!!!

Remember to add 30+ years to your own age, is your answer the same? Sneaking suspicion that you are close to the old woman's tongue in age.

When I first started as a doe-eyed 18 year old escorting in San Francisco and taking a combination of cabs, buses and subways home to my dorm, I didn't kiss. I thought it was standard, and I'll be frank, it made the whole prospect seem easier. I had no access to reviews or provider boards (I think there were only two on the entire internet), so how was I even supposed to know what went on in appointments and what to do? I had read a number of books written by sex workers about politics, feminism, kink, and so on, but no one ever talked about the Kissing Question. Sadly, I relied on the stereotype to inform me.

As I opened up and got better at the job, I realized I was keeping myself from doing something *I* found natural and enjoyable, and also that my appointments were mine to make, and I set the rules.

Fuck everybody else, I wanna suck on your face

I can't say what the reasoning is for everyone, but for me it was purely ignorance about what went on behind closed doors. I did some really silly shit back then. I do silly shit now, too, but at least I kiss.

Kissing is the gateway to my arousal. If I can't kiss and be into it with a lady it really make the session kind of so so. I understand the issues but just like some won't play with a lady that only does cbj and not bbbj, I don't like playing with a lady that won't DFK. If I'm just there for Daty or pse then I may be ok with it, otherwise no kissing = no GFE

A true GFE will kiss you in between bbbj and Daty.


IB

Kissing is the gateway to my arousal. If I can't kiss and be into it with a lady it really make the session kind of so so. I understand the issues but just like some won't play with a lady that only does cbj and not bbbj, I don't like playing with a lady that won't DFK. If I'm just there for Daty or pse then I may be ok with it, otherwise no kissing = no GFE

A true GFE will kiss you in between bbbj and Daty.


IB Originally Posted by Iron Butterfly

+1